EP 3610 Men are losing their way

In The Strong Life Project Podcast EP 3610, Men are losing their way, Shaun O'Gorman has a straight conversation about the crisis happening in front of us: good men backing away from leadership because they don't want the heat that comes with it. Live with strength, tenacity, resilience.

A lot of men aren't afraid of strength. They're afraid of the consequences of being seen as strong. They've watched strong get labelled as toxic, controlling, dangerous, or "too much." They've learned it's safer to stay small, agreeable, and silent. But when a man opts out of leadership, it doesn't create peace. It creates drift in every part of his life.

In this episode, Shaun breaks down what real strength actually is: a calm nervous system, strong boundaries, honest communication, and the willingness to do the hard thing even when it's uncomfortable. This isn't chest beating. It's integrity. It's showing up when you'd rather disappear. It's being the stable presence in the room when everyone else is reactive. That's leadership.

We also unpack why modern life makes it harder: blurred roles, father wounds, constant comparison, dopamine distractions, and a culture that rewards image. If you don't build your own code, you'll live by someone else's.

Ask yourself: What am I avoiding? What does it cost me? What would the strongest version of me do next? Then take one action that proves you mean it: the hard conversation, the training session, the apology, the boundary, the plan.

Decide what you stand for, set a standard you won't negotiate, and take one action today that aligns with the man you want to be. Leadership starts with self leadership. The world doesn't need perfect men. It needs men who are accountable, steady, and willing to be counted.