EP 3595 Why is fear so paralysing

Fear isn't just an emotion. It's a biological alarm system designed to keep you alive. In this episode, I break down why fear can feel so paralysing, even when the threat isn't real, immediate, or rational. When your nervous system reads danger, it prioritises survival over logic. That's why you can know what to do and still feel stuck, avoidant, reactive, or frozen.

We unpack the three common fear responses most people cycle through without realising: fight, flight, and freeze. Freeze is the one that looks like procrastination, overthinking, perfectionism, scrolling, shutting down, and "I'll start tomorrow." It's not laziness. It's a protective response. But the problem is, if you keep obeying fear, you train your brain to treat normal life as a threat and your world gets smaller.

I explain how fear becomes amplified through uncertainty, past experiences, and the stories you repeat. Most fear is future focused. It's the mind rehearsing worst case scenarios and calling it preparation. The cost is huge: missed opportunities, strained relationships, poorer leadership, and a life lived well under your potential.

This episode is about getting practical. You'll learn how to interrupt the fear loop, regulate your state, and take action in small, controlled reps so your nervous system learns that you're safe. Confidence doesn't arrive before action. It's built because of action. If fear has been running your decisions, this is your reminder that you can feel fear and still move forward. Your life expands on the other side of what you're avoiding.