What Mattered Most

A Memoir

De: Ty Herndon, David Ritz

Narrado por: Ty Herndon, Vince Gill

*NARRATED BY THE AUTHOR!*
*WITH COUNTRY LEGEND VINCE GILL NARRATING THE PREFEACE!*

Ty Herndon brings the power of his own voice to the special audio edition of WHAT MATTERED MOST. Along with country music superstar Vince Gill reading the Preface, Herndon paints an intimate portrait of faith, addiction, celebrity, and relationships in the inimitable voice that made him an icon of country music.

An intimate, often hilarious but always sincere memoir from country legend Ty Herndon on his struggles with addiction, mental health, his career, relationships, and being the first openly gay male country superstar.

Ty Herndon may be most known for his beautiful country songs, but behind the music Herndon's own life could be the subject of a classic country ballad. His career began as a member of the band The Tennessee River Boys—the band that would later become Diamond Rio. He found solo success after signing to Epic Records and releasing the number-one hit "What Mattered Most," launching a decades-long career as one of country music's leading legends.

But behind the fame, Herndon struggled with addiction, mental health issues, and his sexuality—the latter of which had no place in mainstream country in the 90's, 2000's and arguably through today. Facing a series of setbacks including an arrest, lawsuits and a drug relapse, all while struggling to maintain his secret, his spiral ultimately led to a suicide attempt. His subsequent successful stay in rehab led to the inspiration for his song "God or the Gun."

Now, Herndon brings that song to life telling his full story for the first time. With profound introspection, brutal honesty, occasional humor and a lot of heart, Herndon shares how he fought against his demons and ultimately chose God over the gun.

Journeys aren't always easy...

Congratulations to my buddy Ty Herndon, your story is now available for all to see, hear, and experience the journey with you. You have always been such an open and honest person to those that are in your presence. I am so proud of you and the man you became and continue to be on the road to WHAT MATTERED MOST authentically. Love you.

Raw honest and journey of a gay country music pioneer.

Great book, but a painful journey to loving oneself. A golden voice upcoming superstar struggles between fame and forbidden love and his coping choices make it more difficult.

shock and awe

chapter 8 shocked me. chapter 30 left me sobbing. Ty, your story left me in awe of you, you resilience and your faith. I hope that when darkness threatens to undo all you have done that you remember that 14 year old who came out to his parents. What mattered most is you, Ty. Love you no matter what.

grab the tissues

I laughed till I cried, and cried till I prayed. Then I laughed some more.

honesty, the games played in the music business and, mental health

T his book took a ton of courage to write. Im glad he called out the big money producers who hurt and scar men and women. I love his heart and he and Alex are old soles. You have to be one to know one. I've been blessed to work with Alex and meet Ty. Both of them light a room up and the loving and kindness and just the realness shines. this book tells the struggles to get there and how to keep working to get there!