Weaning is one of the most emotional and often confusing transitions in the breastfeeding or pumping journey—and no two experiences look the same. In this episode of All Things Conceivable: A Surrogacy Podcast, host Nazca Fontes is joined by Abby Theuring, founder of the Badass Breastfeeder community, to unpack everything moms (and surrogates) need to know about weaning.

Together, they discuss how to know when the right time to wean truly is, how to gently and safely reduce milk supply, and what physical and emotional changes—including post-weaning depression—can arise along the way. Abby shares practical, step-by-step guidance for pumping parents, breastfeeding parents, and those choosing to suppress lactation altogether, while emphasizing the importance of community support and working with a lactation consultant.

This conversation also speaks directly to women preparing for a surrogacy journey, including those who are still breastfeeding or pumping and need to plan their timeline thoughtfully before moving forward. From milk donation and lactation advocacy to empowerment, autonomy, and self-care, this episode offers expert insight and reassurance for anyone navigating the end of their lactation journey.

Whether you’re weaning by choice, necessity, or in preparation for surrogacy, this episode will leave you feeling informed, supported, and less alone.

How do you bring up the idea of becoming a surrogate with your spouse or partner—especially when it’s something you’ve been considering for a long time? Starting this conversation can feel overwhelming, emotional, and deeply personal.

Joining us are two experienced surrogates and trusted surrogacy experts: Lori Jurecko, MA, LSW, a ConceiveAbilities mental health professional and experienced surrogate, and Allyson Meadows, a surrogacy legal assistant and current surrogate. Together, they break down how to talk to your partner about becoming a surrogate with clarity, honesty, and confidence—sharing real-life insight, emotional guidance, and practical advice from both a professional and personal perspective.

Whether you’re just exploring surrogacy or looking for the right words to say, this episode offers thoughtful guidance, reassurance, and practical tips to help you approach the conversation with confidence and care.

Learn more about becoming a surrogate at ConceiveAbilities.

What’s your superpower? For Stacy Brown, it’s helping create life—and a legacy of love that spans generations. A fitness instructor, retail professional, and self-described “soccer mom,” Stacy never imagined her love for pregnancy would lead her beyond her own family. After experiencing both loss and joy on her path to motherhood, she felt a deeper calling: helping other families build theirs as a gestational surrogate.

On this episode of All Things Conceivable: A Surrogacy Podcast, Stacy shares her journey from first-time mom to experienced surrogate, now entering her third surrogacy. She reflects on the challenges, joys, and emotional growth that come with carrying life for others—and the profound ripple effect it has on intended parents, children, and extended families.

Listen and learn about:

• How Stacy navigated conversations with her spouse about surrogacy

• The role of faith, community, and support in her surrogacy journey

• Coping with failed transfers and building resilience

• The deep, lasting connections formed with intended parents

• Tips for talking to kids and loved ones about surrogacy

• Words of inspiration for women considering surrogacy and families hoping to grow

Whether you’re curious about surrogacy or ready to take the next step, Stacy’s story shows how becoming a surrogate can create love, hope, and family across generations.

🎧 Listen to Stacy’s full story on All Things Conceivable: A Surrogacy Podcast

If you’re thinking about becoming a surrogate, there’s no better way to learn than hearing directly from women who’ve done it. Listen to our surrogacy podcast for real stories, read our surrogate journey blog posts, and watch candid videos on our Surrogacy YouTube channel.

Ready to start your surrogacy journey? Learn more about how to become a surrogate!