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話す力 心をつかむ44のヒント (文春新書 1435)
- Narrated by: 小野 慶子
- Length: 5 hrs and 13 mins
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Publisher's summary
日本人だからこその会話の妙や楽しみ方はあるはず――。初対面の相手との会話から、認知症の親の介護や家庭円満の秘訣、会議や会食まで。インタビュアーを三十年以上続けているアガワが披露するとっておきのエピソードとコミュニケーション術。
目次
ちょっと長めのまえがき
Ⅰ 他人の話のなかにヒントがある
１ 海外で思い知ったこと
２ 自分が話したいことを見つける
３ 話すべきことは相手の話の中にある
４ 会話とは〝しりとり話題合戦〟
５ 沈黙を怖れない
６ 相手の話のリズムを察する
７ 相手の話に共感し反応する
８ 「同意」と「共感」はアガる
９ 助け船を出すことを心がける
（声かけヒント１）
（声かけヒント２）
Ⅱ 話し相手との郷里勘
10 相手との距離感をつかむ
11 モテる男は、聞き上手
12 距離と時間をおくことも必要
13 時にはＫＹも有用だ
14 会合では一番下っ端に喋らせる
15 皇室の会話術に学ぶ
16 絶妙な突っ込みは会話の妙
17 どんな接続語で始めるか
18 話題に窮したら病気自慢
19 占いや心理テストはいいネタになる
20 小話を頭の抽斗に入れておく
21 シモネタの効用
（声かけヒント３）
Ⅲ 日本語は相手の様子を見る言語
22 日本語の一人称は変幻自在
23 日本語は相手の出方によって自分の発言を変えられる
24 語り手をノセる合いの手
25 男女で差が出る会話と人間関係
26 初対面での会話術
27 スマホ依存は言葉を忘れさせる
28 一人で入った飲食店で何を喋る
29 アウェイの場所でどうするか
30 初めて会った人への対し方
31 健康に感謝。仕事に感謝
32 女はお喋り、男は無口
33 末っ子の処世術
34 オジサン上司の心をつかむには
（声かけヒント４）
（声かけヒント５）
Ⅳ 上手な話と良い日本語
35 私が最も話上手と思った人
36 専門用語で逃げるな
37 父が教えた正しい日本語と下品な日本語
38 心に響く言葉選び
39 物語性は対話にとって大事
40 話の使い回しは落伍と同じ
41 ダジャレを嫌がらないで
42 不幸な体験は宝物
43 認知症の母と話す
44 大惨事になる前に、笑うところを見つける
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