41 - Ellie Shepley Montgomerie: Unlocking Power Through Desire Part 2

Welcome to Part 2 of Women on FIRE! I am so excited to have Ellie Shepley Montgomerie back on the Be You Podcast today for more on the topic of pleasure. In Part 1, we learned so much about Ellie and her journey to becoming an intimacy coach through vulnerability. In that episode, we opened a lot of doors to some possible topics to talk about today, but we ultimately decided that we would discuss the topic of pleasure today. Ellie Shepley Montgomerie is a Pleasure and Intimacy Expert and Co-Founder of her company Desire on Fire. Through her retreats and programs she teaches women how to create confident intimacy and fulfilling relationships. She's personally trained with some of the top Intimacy and Sensuality teachers in the world. Together with her business partner Aimee Batuski, Ellie has created a remarkable sisterhood of women who allow their desires and pleasure to lead the way as they step into a whole new world of freedom, manifestation, and ease. In today's episode, we talk about the trigger word for a lot of women - pleasure. There's so much to unpack here, but in today's episode we begin that conversation. What is pleasure? What does it look like? How can a self-pleasure practice change your life? You may be surprised by how powerful a woman's body can be. To join Jill's private feed click here: https://beyou.supercast.tech ---------- The Be You Podcast by coach and spirituality and wellness enthusiast Jill Herman is all about women helping women to unbecome everything they thought they had to be and unapologetically embracing their trust self. Jill covers topics like healing, parenting, self love, women helping women, spirituality and much more. Through the Be You podcast and her work with the Be You Collective, Jill makes the challenging process of healing approachable, especially when it comes to parenting and self love. She draws on her personal parenting experiences, her own healing journey, and wisdom from coaches and thought leaders like Glennon Doyle, Lisa Bilyeu, Luke Storey, Christine Hasler, and more. Whether you're looking for parenting advice, a community of women helping women, or you're on your own healing journey, the Be You Podcast is for you. Instagram: @jillhermanbeyou @beyoupodcast_ ---------- Links and Resources: Be You Home PageJoin our text community! Text [phone] to join!Jill Herman on InstagramBe You Collective on FacebookMy Best Year Ever Workshop Recording Don't forget to download your free ebook to help you discover how to live a life of POWER, FREEDOM, and JOY! Be You and Break Free From the Opinions of Others by Jill Herman The Pleasure Challenge with Ellie Shepley Montgomerie and Aimee BatuskiEllie Montgomerie on InstagramDesire on Fire on Instagram ---------- Glennon Doyle on being yourself: "Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world." - Glennon Doyle Glennon Doyle on women helping women: "People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don't need help." - Glennon Doyle Glennon Doyle on healing: "What if pain - like love - is just a place brave people visit?" - Glennon Doyle Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women: "Cheer for your girls like you got pom-poms at a pep rally." - Lisa Bilyeu Lisa Bilyeu on healing: "If you're still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror." - Lisa Bileyu Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women: "Choose your life's board members like you're building a Fortune 500 company." - Lisa Bilyeu Tucker Max on being yourself: "If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they're bad people." - Tucker Max Tucker Max on healing: "Pretending to be something you aren't because you're trying to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites and shitheads is not the way to be happy. Living the life you want to live is." - Tucker Max Tucker Max on healing: "Men will treat you the way you let them. You get what you demand from people." - Tucker Max Luke Storey on healing: "Within self honesty and self awareness is a modicum of humility and that's all you really need to affect change." - Luke Storey Luke Storey on healing: "The foundation to your healing is to not be committed to your lies." - Luke Storey Christine Hasler on healing: "Know that the qualities you admire in others are the qualities you need to recognize and nurture inside yourself." - Christine Hasler Christine Hasler on parenting: "People come in and out of our lives to share them with us, contribute, support us, and teach us, but they never complete us." - Christine Hasler Christine Hasler on healing: "It is in the most undesirable of external circumstances that we discover internal qualities like courage, faith, compassion, inspiration, acceptance, and love." - Christine Hasler