In a world of dating apps and endless checklists, are we missing the one thing that truly creates lasting attraction? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into why presence—not looks, not checkboxes—matters most in finding a lifelong partner.

Join us as we explore how the constant search for the perfect match can overshadow the real key to connection: the ability to be genuinely present. We’ll discuss why modern dating often erodes presence and how focusing on understanding and attention can transform the way we connect.

If you’ve ever felt that dating is just a numbers game that leaves everyone more skeptical and less hopeful, this episode is for you. Let’s redefine attraction by putting presence back at the center.

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Why do grown adults flirt like undercover agents?
Why do people who are interested hide behind innocent comments, mixed messages, and half sentences nobody knows how to decode?

In this episode, we break down thirty real phrases people use when they are secretly attracted to you but too afraid to say it directly. These are the signals in adult dating that most people miss, misunderstand, or blame on “being friendly.”

If you’ve ever wondered whether someone actually likes you, this episode gives you the psychology, the translation, and the reason behind every subtle hint. From “You’re different” to “I don’t want to make things weird” to “Let’s just see where this goes,” we expose the real meaning behind the quiet breadcrumbs people drop when they want connection without risking rejection.

You’ll learn:
• how adults flirt indirectly
• the psychology of ambiguous attraction
• how avoidants send hidden signals
• how men and women misunderstand each other
• how fear of rejection creates breadcrumb flirting
• how to tell when someone likes you but won’t admit it
• how to stop misreading mixed messages
• how emotional safety shapes modern relationships

This episode is perfect for anyone navigating dating in their thirties, forties, or fifties, anyone who missed social cues growing up, anyone healing from past relationships, and anyone trying to understand adult attachment and emotional intelligence.

If someone in your life has been acting “different,” this episode will make everything clear.

🎧 Press play and find out what those signals really mean.
Because if you think someone might like you…
You’re Probably Right.

Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.

You will learn:

• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise
• why calm confidence creates emotional safety
• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer
• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships
• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away
• how to stay centred without chasing or overgiving

This episode is a clear guide for men and women who want healthier relationships without losing their self respect. If you have ever been confused by mixed signals, silent retreats, or the distance that shows up right when things start feeling real, this one will help you understand the pattern and break it with strength.

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