In this episode of Your Critical Crush, Jay unpacks ghosting, emotional availability, and what we expect from each other in a hyper-accessible world. We talk about when distance can be valid, when silence becomes harmful, and how identity fatigue, capacity, and communication shape modern relationships — with friends, family, and lovers. This conversation is about clarity over guilt, boundaries over avoidance, and learning how to pull back without disappearing.

New Year, Not “New You” — What Resolutions Really Say About You

Every January, we’re told to reinvent ourselves — new habits, new goals, new versions of who we’re supposed to become. But what if the pressure to “be new” is actually distracting us from who we already are?

In this first episode of Your Critical Crush, I get into what New Year’s resolutions really reveal about our identity, our self-trust, and the way we approach change. From the difference between intention and performance to how growth actually happens over time, this episode is a grounded conversation about becoming more honest with ourselves — without the gimmicks.

This isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about becoming more you.

🧠 WHAT WE GET INTO

• Why “New Year, New You” doesn’t work for most people
• What resolutions quietly say about how we see ourselves
• Identity-based habits vs. pressure-based goals
• The difference between growth, discipline, and self-punishment
• Letting change be sustainable instead of dramatic

🧩 SEGMENTS IN THIS EPISODE

• Let’s Get Critical — reframing New Year expectations
• Talk You Through It — personal reflections on identity, habits, and growth
• Crush • Crave • Crash — what I’m loving, wanting, and side-eyeing right now
• The Critical Question — a question to sit with long after the episode ends

💬 STAY CONNECTED

If this episode resonated with you, subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who might need a softer, more honest approach to change this year.

This is Your Critical Crush — where we keep it cute, candid, and connected.
I’m Jay Theo.
Let’s get critical.