Episode 5 – Call Your Grandmother
February 4, 2026
Featuring: Gloria Bandarenko

In this episode of You Turned Out OK, Mrs. B discusses parenting across generations with her
mother-in-law, Gloria (the OG Mrs. B), a member of the silent generation. They explore the
differences in parenting styles, the challenges modern parents face, and the evolving nature of
family dynamics. Gloria shares her insights on the importance of open communication, the
role of a mother-in-law, and the pride of being a grandparent. The conversation highlights the
significance of family traditions and the impact of cultural influences on parenting.

Generational differences shape parenting styles.
Open communication is key in modern parenting.
Parents today face unique challenges with information overload.
Millennial parents are more involved and attentive.
Cultural influences play a significant role in parenting.
The role of a mother-in-law is to support and respect boundaries.
Grandparenting offers a different perspective on love and care.
Family traditions are important for passing down values.
Parents should not feel guilty about making mistakes.
Social media can negatively impact parenting.

00:00 Generational Perspectives on Parenting
02:52 The Evolution of Parenting Styles
06:02 Modern Parenting Challenges
08:49 Admiring Millennial Parenting
11:58 Cultural Influences on Parenting
14:56 The Role of a Mother-in-Law
17:48 Grandparenting: A Different Experience
21:00 Family Legacy and Traditions
23:43 Reflections on Parenting Advice
26:37 Final Thoughts on Parenting and Grandparenting

parenting, generational differences, modern parenting, grandparenting, family traditions,
cultural influences, advice, motherhood, family dynamics, emotional support

Episode 4 – It’s 10 PM. Do you know where your children are?

January 21, 2026

Featuring: Becky Ford

Remember when parents didn’t coordinate playdates like military operations? Parenting a five-year-old is hard. Parenting a five-year-old as a Gen Xer surrounded by millennial parents is… an experience. In this episode, I sit down with another Gen Xer who’s raising a five-year-old among millennial parents. We unpack how freedom became a liability, technology became a third parent, and why letting kids roam—even a little—now feels like a radical act.

• Parenting has evolved significantly from the Gen X era to now
• Technology and social media have changed how parents monitor their children.
• Participation trophies are a controversial topic among parents.
• There’s a balance between giving children independence and ensuring their safety.
• Gen X parents often reflect on their own upbringing when raising their children.
• Modern parenting involves more communication and involvement.
• The concept of ‘helicopter parenting’ is more prevalent today.
• Parents today have more resources but also face more societal pressure.
• The role of schools in parenting has changed over the years.
• There’s a debate on the impact of modern parenting trends on children’s resilience.

00:00:00 Introduction to Parenting Evolution

Overview of how parenting has changed from the Gen X era to today.

00:05:00 Technology and Social Media’s Impact

Discussion on how technology and social media have transformed parenting practices.

00:10:00 Participation Trophies Debate

Exploration of the controversial topic of participation trophies and their impact on children.

00:15:00 Balancing Independence and Safety

Insights into how parents balance giving children independence while ensuring their safety.

00:20:00 Gen X vs. Millennial Parenting

Comparative analysis of parenting styles between Gen X and millennial parents.

00:25:00 The Rise of Helicopter Parenting

Examination of the increase in helicopter parenting and its effects.

00:30:00 The Role of Schools in Today’s Parenting

Discussion on how the role of schools in parenting has evolved over the years.

00:35:00 Resilience and Modern Parenting

Debate on the impact of modern parenting trends on children’s resilience.

parenting, Gen X, millennials, participation trophies, technology, social media, independence, safety, supervision, freedom

Episode 3 – “Check All That Apply” Embracing Bicultural Identities
November 19, 2025
Featuring: Emma BXB & Clementine Fujimura

In this episode of You Turned Out OK, host Rachel Bandarenko engages in a heartfelt
conversation with her daughter-in-law Emma and Dr. Clementine Fujimura about the
complexities of bicultural and multicultural identities. They explore how cultural backgrounds
shape parenting styles, the importance of traditions, and the challenges of navigating identity
labels. The discussion highlights the significance of food in cultural identity, the role of
curiosity in understanding different cultures, and the unique superpowers that multicultural
families possess. Emma shares her experiences growing up in a bicultural household, while
Clementine provides insights from her anthropological perspective, making for a rich and
enlightening dialogue.

• ● Bicultural identity can be a source of pride and complexity.
  ● Curiosity and asking questions are essential in understanding cultural differences.
  ● Food plays a significant role in cultural identity and family traditions.
  ● Navigating labels and identity can be challenging for bicultural individuals.
  ● Cultural expectations can influence parenting styles and family dynamics.
  ● Maintaining language and cultural traditions is important for identity.
  ● Multicultural families often possess adaptability as a superpower.
  ● Experiences of discrimination can shape how families approach cultural integration.
  ● Creating a safe space for cultural expression is vital for children.
  ● Understanding and celebrating diversity can strengthen family bonds

00:00 Cultural Identity and Labels
07:18 Navigating Bicultural Experiences
13:53 Food as Cultural Connection
19:58 Traditions and Family Dynamics
20:27 Cultural Traditions and Family Practices
22:08 The Importance of Language in Cultural Identity
24:04 Generational Perspectives on Cultural Assimilation
25:42 Navigating Bicultural Identity
27:26 Curiosity and Engagement in Bicultural Families
29:06 Advice for Multicultural Families
31:39 Superpowers of Bicultural Families
35:52 Rapid Fire Questions on Culture and Identity
40:36 Personal Stories and Perspectives on Family Traditions
41:09 Podcast Ending Credits.mp4

multicultural families, bicultural identity, parenting, cultural traditions, food, cultural
expectations, identity labels, family dynamics, cultural heritage, cultural practices