Wounded | Church Hurt: Part Two

What do you do when the place meant to bring hope ends up causing pain?

In this message, Lou walks through four levels of church hurt—from tough love to deep wounds—and offers a path toward healing. Whether you’ve experienced shame, betrayal, manipulation, or even abuse within the church, you’re not alone. And it was never supposed to be this way.

This message isn’t about pointing fingers—it’s about finding clarity, healing, and the kind of honesty that creates healthier communities.

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro & Jesus’ vision for the Church

06:00 – Four types of church hurt

07:15 – Tough love (why it stings but helps)

12:00 – Frustration (the cost of community)

18:00 – Pain (when trust is broken)

24:44 – Abuse (when authority is misused)

35:00 – Real steps for healing

📱 Need someone to talk to?

Text HURT to 631-600-7880 for support from a trained listener or a counselor.

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