Does Ephesians 5:22 mean wives are somehow less valuable than their husbands? Or is there something deeper we're missing?
In this episode of Words From The Word, Pastor Roderick Webster tackles one of the most misunderstood—and culturally controversial—passages in Scripture: wives submitting to their husbands.
Culture says submission equals oppression. Some churches say "just obey without question." But what does God actually say?
You'll discover that submission isn't about value or inequality—it's about God's beautiful design for order in marriage that reflects Christ and the Church.
✓ Does submission mean I'm less valuable than my husband?
✓ How can I submit "as unto the Lord" when my husband doesn't act like the Lord?
✓ Didn't Christ submit to the Father—yet they're equal?
✓ What's the difference between submission and being a doormat?
✓ How do I explain biblical submission to friends who think it's toxic?
🔹 Submission ≠ Inequality
Christ submitted to the Father (Philippians 2:6-8), yet they are fully, completely equal. Submission is about role and order, not value or worth.
🔹 The Phrase That Changes Everything
"As unto the Lord" isn't about serving your husband's ego—it's about obeying God through the structure He designed.
🔹 Why God Designed the Husband as Head
Just like a body malfunctions when it doesn't respond to the head, a family struggles when God's order isn't honored. The husband is head—not because wives are less, but because every body needs one head.
🔹 The Pre-Marriage Test
Want to know if someone understands biblical submission? Check how they submit to authority now—to parents, employers, church leadership. If they can't submit there, marriage won't magically fix it.
🔹 What's Coming Next
Next episode: Husbands, love your wives—and discover why God puts a heavier weight on husbands than on wives.
- Ephesians 5:22-24 — Wives, submit to your own husbands, as unto the Lord
- Philippians 2:6-8 — Christ's submission to the Father while remaining equal
- 1 Corinthians 11:3 — The head of the woman is the man; the head of Christ is God
- Colossians 1:18 — Christ is the head of the church
- John 14:9 — Jesus and the Father are one
- John 17:22 — The glory and oneness of Christ and the Father
0:00 — Opening + devotion promise
0:58 — Who must submit?
2:01 — What submission is
3:02 — Is submission inequality?
4:39 — How to submit: the manner
6:21 — Why the husband is head
8:12 — Body that won't obey the head
10:15 — Subject in everything
11:29 — Check before you marry
12:11 — Next: Husbands, love your wives
"Submission isn't about value—it's about order and beautiful design."
"Christ submitted to the Father yet remained fully equal."
"When wives submit 'as unto the Lord,' they obey God—not ego."
Don't miss the next episode where Pastor Webster unpacks what God commands husbands to do—and why it's a heavier responsibility than most men realize.
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Words From The Word is a daily Bible devotion podcast hosted by Pastor Roderick Webster of Good News Baptist Church. Each episode opens Scripture with clarity, warmth, and practical wisdom to help you walk faithfully with Christ—even when His Word challenges culture.
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