Why We Chase the Wrong People: The Psychology of Rejection Attraction

"Why We Chase the Wrong People: The Psychology of Rejection Attraction"

Why do we sometimes want the people who don’t want us back?

Why does a cold text, a delayed reply, or outright rejection make us more obsessed?

In this thought-provoking episode of Love Science Today, we dig deep into the psychology behind Rejection Attraction—that confusing phenomenon where emotional unavailability, detachment, or disinterest only makes us want someone more.

We explore:

• The neuroscience of scarcity and dopamine loops

• Attachment styles and their role in attraction

• The chase dynamic: illusion, ego, and trauma

• Real stories of chasing unrequited love

• How to break the pattern and stop mistaking rejection for romantic chemistry

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck on someone emotionally distant—or questioning why “nice” never feels exciting—this episode is for you.