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  • How to Heal When You’re Falling Apart
    Apr 1 2025

    You’re doing everything right… praying, reflecting, showing up for God—and still feel like you're in pieces.

    In this video, we’re getting real about the brokenness Millennials silently carry and why healing can’t happen until you stop pretending and start surrendering.

    We’ll walk through: – 5 silent struggles that are breaking us
    – Why we feel stuck, even in our faith
    – A powerful truth that changed everything for me
    – A spiritual + emotional method to start healing today

    “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18)

    If you’re tired of gluing yourself together with duct tape and faith quotes… this is for you.

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    Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone silently struggling.

    You’re not too broken. You’re just in the rebuilding phase.

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    21 m
  • The Secret to Confidence: Master One Thing
    Mar 20 2025

    Clarity is Power – How Faith, Resilience & Self-Awareness Leads to Breakthroughs Many people give up—not because they lack talent or intelligence, but because they lack faith and try to focus on too many things. When we feel stuck in life, it's not time be scattered mentally. Focus on God and what He's gifted you with. In this eye-opening episode, our guest shares her story of moving from engineering into life coaching, embracing

    God’s plan, and helping others find their hidden talents and true purpose.

    In this episode, we cover:

    ✅ How her father’s vision led her to engineering, even though her passion was elsewhere

    ✅ Why self-awareness and clarity are the ultimate game-changers for success

    ✅ The connection between faith, problem-solving, and emotional intelligence

    ✅ How embracing midlife transitions and career pivots unlocks hidden purpose

    ✅ The importance of mentorship and guiding the next generation

    ✅ Why change is inevitable, but adapting is a choice

    Key Takeaways: ✔️ You are in this trial for a purpose—God is setting you up for something bigger. ✔️ Feeling stuck? It’s a message from God that it’s time to pivot. ✔️ Clarity is power—without it, you're scattered and stagnant. ✔️ Faith isn’t passive—it requires action. ✔️ Your current season is preparing you for your next breakthrough.

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    This video is about building emotional strength and grow spiritually to conquer emotional chaos. Strengthen your faith, embrace spiritual growth, and walk boldly in who God created you to be! Subscribe to our channel if you want to Crush Emotional Chaos. #EmotionalStrength #SpiritualGrowth #FaithOverFear

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  • Quit Overthinking and Start Making an Impact
    Mar 13 2025

    In this powerful conversation, I talk with Victor Vonico Johnson as we dive into strategies for building authentic engagement, personal growth, and networking success. We discuss the impact of the Kings Accountability Group, the importance of collaboration, and how taking action can transform your life. From real estate investments to digital content creation, we share key insights on overcoming doubt, embracing resilience, and making a lasting impact. Tune in for practical wisdom and inspiration to level up your journey!

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    This video is about building emotional strength and grow spiritually to conquer emotional chaos. Strengthen your faith, embrace spiritual growth, and walk boldly in who God created you to be! Subscribe to our channel if you want to Crush Emotional Chaos. #EmotionalStrength #SpiritualGrowth #FaithOverFear

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    49 m
  • Quit Reacting—Start Listening: 3 Ways to Strengthen Relationships
    Feb 18 2025

    Ever caught yourself in a conversation where you're just waiting to respond instead of truly listening? When we stop listening, we stop understanding—and that weakens our relationships.

    In this message, i’ll cover:

    ✅ The 3 types of empathy

    ✅ How Jesus modeled empathy perfectly

    ✅ 3 practical ways to listen better and build trust

    Key Verse: James 1:19 – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

    Challenge: Pause before reacting. Listen, reflect, and respond with love.

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    16 m
  • Feeling Lost? 3 Ways to Know God is Calling You!
    Feb 18 2025

    Feeling Lost? 3 Ways to Know God is Calling You! Are you struggling to understand your purpose? Do you feel like God is trying to tell you something, but you’re not sure how to listen? This video is for you! In 2016, I first heard my calling through Lectio Divina, an ancient practice of listening to God’s voice through scripture.

    I was deep in prayer when one word hit me—EVANGELISM—and I wanted to run. But when God calls you, He doesn’t ask for your opinion—He invites you into something greater.

    In this message, I’ll share:

    ~ 3 key ways to recognize when God is calling you

    ~ How to overcome doubt and fear in your faith journey

    ~ The power of trusting God’s plan for your life

    If you’ve been feeling lost, uncertain, or afraid of missing your calling, watch now and discover how to hear God’s voice and step into your divine purpose with confidence!

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  • 5 Ways to Remove the Shackles of Fear—The Key is in Your Hands
    Feb 4 2025

    Your comfort zone might feel safe, but it’s actually keeping you from the life God has for you. Fear, doubt, and routine can create a mental and spiritual prison—but here’s the truth: you have the key to unlock your next level! In this video, I’ll show you how emotional intelligence helps you recognize what’s keeping you stuck, five ways to step out of your comfort zone, and why fear isn’t your enemy—staying stagnant is. God is calling you forward, and it’s time to move! Joshua 1:9 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” If fear has been holding you back, this is your sign to step out in faith and trust that God is with you. Hit play, take notes, and let’s break free together! Drop a comment below: What’s one fear you need to surrender today? Let’s talk about it! And don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and TURN ON NOTIFICATIONS so you don’t miss the next video!

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    20 m
  • What Happens When You START Listening to Your Emotions?
    Jan 22 2025

    Ever feel like life’s on repeat—stuck in the same cycle of stress, frustration, and emotional chaos? In this video, we’re diving into the power of self-awareness and how it can transform your life.

    What You’ll Learn: How to pause and reflect to gain clarity (it’s biblical—Psalm 139:23 backs it up!).

    Why your emotions aren’t your enemy, but they’re terrible decision-makers. Simple steps to take control of your emotions, grow in faith, and live the purposeful life you were created for.

    Key Verse: Proverbs 16:32 – "Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city." This isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. Whether you’re battling stress, bad habits, or just feel stuck, your breakthrough starts here.

    Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this video with someone who needs a fresh perspective. Want more tools?

    Check out my book, How to Crush Emotional Chaos and Walk in Faith, for practical insights to help you crush emotional chaos and grow spiritually.

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    Let’s grow together—one step at a time.

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  • 3 Ways to Stand Firm When Fear Creeps In
    Jan 16 2025

    What if staying silent about your faith is one of the loudest ways to deny it? Yep, I said it. And trust me, I’ve been there. In this video, I get real about my own struggles with low self-esteem and imposter syndrome—the kind that makes you feel like the least qualified person in the room to represent God. (Spoiler alert: that’s a lie.)

    Join me as I share 3 practical ways to stand firm in faith when fear creeps in. Here’s what we’ll cover:

    1️⃣ How to spot the lies fear tells you and hand them over to God (because spoiler: they’re not helping).

    2️⃣ Why connecting with God doesn’t require perfect prayers or a gold-star devotional routine—just you, being real.

    3️⃣ How to practice boldness, even when it feels like jumping into the deep end of a pool without floaties.

    And yes, we’re pulling wisdom straight from Caleb and Joshua’s story in Numbers 14. If they can face giants, you can face your next challenge—no literal giants required.

    Let’s grow in faith, purpose, and emotional strength together. Reflection Question: What’s one area in your life where fear has convinced you to stay silent?

    This week, let’s shake off the fear and speak boldly for God.

    Scripture Reference: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound judgment.” – 2 Timothy 1:7

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