Why Knowing Your Partner isn't the Same as Understanding Them (and How the Enneagram Helps)

In this episode, Chad, co-founder of Big Self School and part of the Leading Human podcast team, discusses the transformative power of the Enneagram in long-term relationships. He highlights the common communication pitfalls couples face and how understanding each other’s Enneagram types can facilitate deeper connections and growth.

This episode also previews the upcoming Enneagram Couples Retreat on February 14th, 2026, in Chattanooga, designed to help couples understand their partner's core motivations and foster compassionate understanding.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:47 Understanding Relationship Dynamics

07:59 The Power of the Enneagram

14:01 Enneagram for Couples Retreat

21:33 Conclusion and Call to Action

If you're in Chattanooga this February, check out our Enneagram for Couples Retreat here. Early bird and 2 for 1 pricing while supplies last and ends December 17, 2025.

We do trainings all over. We'll bring a communication workshop in person or online. https://bigselfschool.com/trainings

Don't just take it from us, hear what others are saying: https://bigselfschool.com/testimonials.

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