Why High Achieving Men Self Sabotage Good Relationships

I walked away from three women I genuinely loved—same pattern every time. Six months of intensity, then suffocation, then exit. Everyone said I had commitment issues. They were wrong. The real problem wasn't fear of commitment—it was something every high-achieving man faces when chemistry fades and direction disappears. Once I understood what I was actually running from, everything changed. Not just who I attracted, but who I became. If you've ever felt trapped in a relationship where nothing was technically wrong, this will make sense. The question isn't whether you're capable of commitment. It's whether you know what you're committing to.Key timestamps:00:00 – “I Don’t Have Commitment Issues” (The Pattern That Kept Repeating)01:50 – The Panic Moment: When Relationships Start Feeling Suffocating02:18 – The Real Fear: Conflict, Confusion & Losing Yourself03:51 – Why Chemistry Always Fades (And Why That’s Normal)06:22 – The Breakthrough: Commitment Isn’t the Problem, Clarity Is