Why Expectations Make or Break a Marriage (Repost of Episode 37)

We’re bringing back one of our earlier Marriage IQ episodes—because the conversation around expectations in marriage is just as relevant today as ever.

In this episode, we unpack how unspoken and unrealistic expectations quietly shape marital satisfaction. Using pop-culture contrasts like Enchanted vs. Shrek, we explore how fantasy versions of love collide with real-life marriage. Along the way, we share personal stories (including a memorable Christmas gift mishap) and break down what research actually says about expectations and long-term happiness.

In this episode, we cover:

✅ Fairy Tales vs. Reality: What movies get wrong about marriage—and how that hurts real couples.
✅ The Expectation Trap: How unmet expectations create resentment, even when love is present.
✅ What Research Reveals: Insights from Eli Finkel and Dr. Jim McNulty on high vs. low expectations and marital outcomes.
✅ Where Expectations Hurt Most: Household roles, sex, in-laws, and parenting.
✅ Practical Tools: How to communicate expectations clearly and realistically—without blame or shutdown.

This is a repost of one of our previous episodes, and if you’ve never heard it—or need the reminder—it’s a powerful reset for how you think about marriage.

If you want a stronger, more fulfilling relationship, it starts with honest self-reflection and open conversations. Tune in and let’s rethink expectations—together.

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