Why Do I Keep CHOKING? | Is it Speech Anxiety | How To Speak Confidently | Pro90D

In this video, we explore what really happens when your voice shuts down under pressure—and why it’s not a flaw, a curse, or something you’re born with. This conversation breaks down real-world case studies from professionals who struggled with speech anxiety, stuttering, rushed communication, and freezing in high-stakes moments, and shows how communication confidence is built through habits, identity, and intentional practice.

You’ll learn why speech is a trainable motor skill, how mindset and self-image shape the way you speak, and how tools like modeling, immersion, breath control, and focused awareness help replace fear with calm, controlled communication.

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction & high-stakes speaking moments

01:04 Speech anxiety vs. traditional therapy

01:50 Identity and executive presence

02:17 How speech habits create career limitations

03:23 Avoidance, fear, and lost opportunities

04:32 Rushed speech and sounding less confident

05:49 Why people finally decide to change

06:15 Modeling confidence instead of fixing flaws

07:19 Self-study vs. coaching and accountability

08:28 Speech as a habit, not a curse

08:56 Modeling, mirror neurons, and identity shifts

10:43 Word anticipation and staying present

11:17 Consistency, immersion, and habit rewiring

12:07 Career, income, and confidence breakthroughs

13:22 Personal wins beyond performance

14:50 Neuroplasticity and rewriting your identity

If you’ve ever struggled with anxiety before speaking, freezing in meetings, rushing your words, or feeling held back by how you communicate, this video offers a clear and grounded path forward. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s progress, presence, and learning how to speak with confidence on purpose.

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