Most dads don’t have a plan. They just try to do their best.

Nathaniel Turner challenges that completely.

In this episode, we explore what it means to raise a child intentionally by working backward from who they should become. From building a “starting five” of mentors to writing letters that shape identity, this conversation pushes beyond surface-level parenting into legacy-level thinking.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re just reacting… or actually leading your family forward, this one will hit.

Nathaniel A. Turner

Educator, speaker, and author focused on intentional parenting and legacy-building.

📘 Raising Superman

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🌐 Website: https://www.nathanielaturner.com/

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💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nathaniel-turner-5557952b5/

Pride gets a bad reputation.

Most of us have been taught that pride is something dangerous—something that leads to ego, arrogance, and selfishness. But is all pride actually bad?

In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew explore the difference between destructive pride and healthy pride, and why that distinction matters for men, fathers, and the next generation.

The conversation dives into questions like:

What does it actually mean to take pride in your work?

Can someone take pride in what they do if they don’t take pride in who they are?

How do we teach kids to care about everyday responsibilities like chores or school?

Are we accidentally raising kids to seek approval instead of purpose?

Paul and Andrew unpack the idea that pride isn’t something that can simply be taught through lectures or instructions. Often, it has to be experienced through effort, ownership, and responsibility.

It’s the feeling that comes when you step back after doing something difficult and realize:

"I did that."

Whether you're a dad, planning to become one someday, or simply trying to become a better man, this episode explores how effort, identity, and responsibility shape the kind of pride that builds character instead of tearing it down.

Because the goal isn’t to eliminate pride.

It’s to cultivate the right kind of pride.

This episode explores the transformative power of men's groups, emphasizing support, accountability, and emotional connection for men and fathers. Jason Lange shares insights on how community impacts personal growth, parenting, and identity shifts, offering practical advice for men seeking deeper connection and self-awareness.

The importance of men's groups for support and accountability
How community influences men's personal growth and parenting
The role of vulnerability and emotional expression in masculinity

00:00 Introduction to Men's Work
01:10 The Importance of Men's Groups
02:40 Support and Accountability in Men's Groups
07:34 Self-Care for Fathers
09:31 Identity Crisis in Fatherhood
10:30 Navigating Life's Transitions
12:24 The Role of Community in Parenting
15:51 Diverse Role Models for Children
19:08 Normalizing Help and Growth
21:37 Integrating Family and Men's Groups
25:53 Virtual vs. In-Person Groups
29:14 Addressing Skepticism About Men's Groups
33:19 The Importance of Genuine Connection
35:16 Men's Groups: A Space for Vulnerability and Growth
39:33 Parenting and Emotional Regulation
43:06 The Role of Men's Groups in Personal Well-being
48:43 Finding the Right Men's Group
56:37 Conclusion and Resources for Men's Groups

• Evolutionary Men Podcast - https://evolutionary.men
• How to Start a Men's Group - https://evolutionary.men/start-a-group
• Instagram - https://instagram.com/evolutionary.men