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Why Am I Like This?!

Why Am I Like This?!

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We are a therapist and a psychiatric nurse practitioner and we want to share a simplified view of these complex concepts that are often misunderstood, avoided, and even feared.

This is a podcast about being human, adapting to life, and learning from our unique experience.

We try to provide the answers to question: Why am I like this?

© 2026 Why Am I Like This?!
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Episodios
  • Why Am I Stuck in A Loop?!
    Mar 25 2026

    We unpack why OCD makes the brain feel stuck in a loop and why intrusive thoughts can create a real sense of impending doom. We explain what is happening in the brain and share practical steps for responding with more clarity and compassion.
    • defining obsessive compulsive disorder as obsessions plus compulsions and how compulsions can be mental
    • common OCD patterns like contamination fears checking symmetry rituals and reassurance seeking
    • why intrusive thoughts feel like proof you are bad and how OCD assigns false meaning
    • the danger detector loop and why it feels involuntary rather than a self-control issue
    • the sledding groove metaphor for habit pathways and how awareness starts to weaken the groove
    • how shame and fear fuel the cycle and why naming OCD reduces threat
    • when trauma family patterns autism or PANS PANDAS can shape OCD symptoms
    • Brain Lock by Dr Jeffrey Schwartz and the four steps relabel reattribute refocus revalue
    • refocusing with a replacement behavior and building distress tolerance over time
    • support options like therapy medication supplements and TMS to reduce symptom intensity
    If you like our show, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform. Follow the show and share it with your friends.

    The book we referenced can be found here: https://jeffreymschwartz.com/brain-lock/

    Laura's Free Course on Emotional Development and Regulation:
    https://benavieri.com/neuroception-sign-up/

    This show is sponsored by:

    Core Self

    www.coreself.org

    Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
    www.benavieri.com

    Active Healing Psychiatric Services
    www.activehealingpsych.com

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    40 m
  • Why Do I Struggle with Executive Dysfunction
    Mar 11 2026

    We reframe ADHD in teens and young adults as a developmental nervous system issue rather than a character flaw, then unpack why independence can feel impossible when executive functioning lags. We share practical ways to reduce shame and power struggles while building autonomy, skills, and real readiness for adult life.
    • executive dysfunction and why task initiation stalls
    • prefrontal cortex development and the role of attachment and attunement
    • how stress, trauma, and misattunement can shape ADHD symptoms
    • shame, negative self-talk, and lower self-esteem in ADHD
    • why teens can act younger than their age emotionally
    • how pushing independence too hard can trigger shutdown and “failure to launch”
    • moving from command and control to a teaching mindset
    • autonomy, choice language, and letting natural consequences teach
    • scaffolding independence with realistic home agreements and supports
    • progress over perfection and the importance of rupture and repair
    • flexible pathways to mastery through step-by-step goals and quick wins
    If you like our show, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform. Follow the show and share it with your friends.

    We referenced the book, Scattered Minds, by Dr. Gabor Mate during this episode. You can find the book here: https://drgabormate.com/book/scattered-minds/

    Laura's Free Course on Emotional Development and Regulation:
    https://benavieri.com/neuroception-sign-up/

    This show is sponsored by:

    Core Self

    www.coreself.org

    Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
    www.benavieri.com

    Active Healing Psychiatric Services
    www.activehealingpsych.com

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    47 m
  • Why Do I Have a Fixed Mindset?!
    Jan 28 2026

    We unpack why struggle feels like a verdict on who we are and show how to move from fixed beliefs to a growth mindset grounded in safety, regulation, and honest reframing. Lived stories, research touchpoints, and simple tools make learning feel safer than staying the same.

    • defining mindset as a learned framework, not a label
    • how childhood roles and tests harden identity
    • states versus traits and why context changes us
    • fixed mindset as ego protection and shame
    • safety before strategy and body-up regulation
    • practical reframes including adding yet
    • praising effort over outcome to unlock growth
    • proving versus improving as an antidote to perfectionism
    • redefining failure as data you can use
    • uneven mindsets across life domains and how to spot them

    If you like our show, please leave a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform
    Follow the show and share with your friends

    To read more about Mindset, check out Carol Dwek's book that we discussed here: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322

    Laura's Free Course on Emotional Development and Regulation:
    https://benavieri.com/neuroception-sign-up/

    This show is sponsored by:

    Core Self

    www.coreself.org

    Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
    www.benavieri.com

    Active Healing Psychiatric Services
    www.activehealingpsych.com

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    51 m
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