When Your 30 Year Marriage Falls Apart: Monica's Story

When the life you've built for decades starts to fall apart, where do you even begin to pick up the pieces? In this podcast episode, Monica, a successful professional who was married for over 30 years, opens up about the quiet unraveling of her relationship. She shares how she spent years walking on emotional eggshells before finally making the hardest decision of her life: to file for a divorce she didn't want because her marriage was falling apart.

Monica’s story begins in the “in-between.” She was stuck, scared, and trying to save a marriage that could no longer be saved.

Monica shares what it was like to leave the only life she had ever known, how she prepared for the possibility of divorce long before she filed, and the powerful mindset shift that helped her see the process as a business decision, not an emotional breakdown.

From letting go of the family home to navigating litigation with grace and clarity, Monica's story offers a grounded, honest look at how to take charge of your future—even when your heart is still catching up to your head.

Monica’s story is a testament to resilience, self-worth, and what it really looks like to heal. If you've ever felt stuck between what was and what could be, Monica’s journey might just give you the perspective shift you need to create the life you truly want.

About Monica

Monica is a highly accomplished Program Manager bringing expertise in program design and oversight, with focus on social responsibility initiatives. Monica divorced 6 years ago after a 30+ yr marriage. Later she almost lost her son in a horrendous car accident. Thankfully, he survived and Monica has gone on to build an amazing life for both of them.

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Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube.

You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.