\\ When You Feel Like You’re Never Enough — A Love Letter to the Overlooked Wife

In this episode, we go straight into the heart of a silent struggle so many women carry alone. This one is for the mom who is doing everything; working, caregiving, cleaning, remembering appointments, pouring into her kids, pouring into her marriage, and still trying to squeeze in care for her own body and heart...yet somehow feels like she’s not measuring up.

It’s for the woman who loves being a homemaker, who loves creating a home, who loves caring for her family…

but quietly wonders if her husband wishes she were someone “easier,” “lighter,” “younger,” or untouched by motherhood.

It’s the episode for the woman who feels replaced by a fantasy she can never, and should never, compete with.

We’re breaking that open today.

What We Cover The hidden heartbreak happening in so many marriages

Why so many women feel like they’re losing to a younger, childless version of womanhood, and why that feeling isn’t actually rooted in truth.

Why the comparison isn’t about you at all

We talk about fantasy vs. reality, and why partners sometimes escape into the idea of “someone easier,” and what that actually signals (hint: it isn’t that you’re not enough).

How motherhood didn’t shrink you — it expanded you

A raw look at how becoming a mother deepens your identity, wisdom, emotional capacity, and power… even when the world doesn’t recognize it.

How to reclaim your sense of worth as the woman you are now

Including:

• Releasing the pressure to be the woman you were before kids

• Returning to your own approval

• Redefining homemaking as world-building

• Choosing nourishment over punishment

• Healing the “never enough” narrative in your body, not just your mind

Why you will never be ‘that girl’ — and why that’s your superpower

A truth-telling conversation about letting go of the fantasy self and honoring the deeply lived, deeply layered woman you’ve become.

A love letter to the overlooked wife:

The closing message every mother, wife, and exhausted, stretched-thin woman needs to hear.

This Episode Is For You If…

• You feel like your husband admires women you can’t relate to anymore

• You compare yourself to your pre-baby body or pre-kid life

• You feel invisible or taken for granted

• You love your role at home but also want to feel chosen, seen, valued

• You’re tired of feeling like you’re not enough — in your marriage, in your body, in your life

A Final Word

You are not losing. You are not falling short. You are not replaceable.

You are becoming — deeper, wiser, fuller. And you deserve a love that honors the woman you are now.

Connect + Continue the Work

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I'm truly grateful for you always,

Stacy