When Things Escalate Quickly: from "put your clothes away" to "you hate me"

In this episode, you’ll hear a real coaching session with a mom navigating her 10-year-old daughter’s intense pushback during a simple bedtime routine. What looks like defiance quickly spirals into emotional outbursts, hurtful words, and confusion about how to respond without damaging connection.

We break down what’s actually driving these moments (hint: it’s not what it seems), and I walk her through how to hold firm boundaries without over-explaining, overreacting, or losing closeness.

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