When Infatuation Masquerades as Love

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Have you ever confused intense infatuation with genuine love? That overwhelming, all-consuming feeling that makes you believe you've found "the one" might actually be limerence – a psychological state of obsessive attachment that mimics love but lacks its substance and stability.

In this transformative episode, Angela Meyer untangles the complex web of misconceptions surrounding love, particularly for survivors of narcissistic relationships. With compassion and clarity, she distinguishes between the addictive high of limerence (complete with intrusive thoughts, idealization, and emotional volatility) and the steady warmth of authentic love (characterized by mutual respect, freedom, and consistency).

Drawing from her expertise as a mental health professional and her personal journey of healing, Angela introduces a powerful metaphor – The Garden of Many Doors – that reimagines boundaries not as walls that close us off, but as doorways that protect our hearts while still allowing connection. This fresh perspective helps listeners understand that unconditional love doesn't mean unlimited access; it means loving with wisdom and discernment.

The episode weaves together psychological insights with touching personal stories, including how Angela learned about unconditional love by watching a mother cat care for her kittens. This seemingly simple observation became a profound template for understanding what genuine nurturing looks like – something many survivors of toxic relationships never experienced growing up.

Whether you're healing from narcissistic abuse, questioning your current relationship, or seeking to build healthier connections, this episode offers a roadmap for transforming how you give and receive love. Visit undetectednarcissist.com for the supporting blog post with additional healing resources.

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