In this personal touch and often hilarious episode, the dads reflect on what it really means to connect with their kids, and why intentional one-on-one time matters so much. From donut dates to nature walk shenanigans, they share the everyday moments that build trust, spark laughter, and allow for real connection.They explore how group dynamics differ from one-on-one time, how each child reflects a part of you, and why showing vulnerability with your kids isn’t weakness—it’s love. The conversation turns nostalgic as they recall their childhoods and how those experiences shape the way they now parent. Whether it's sliding down an apple or recognizing your kid as “you before the world jaded you,” this episode is a reminder to slow down, lean in, and find a strong branch to connect through.Timestamps:00:00 – BTS00:48 – Intro01:47 – Episode 1202:11 – Thinking, and the thought leaves you03:34 – How do you connect with your kids04:30 – Donut06:49 – Nature walk shenanigans10:03 – The perfect mango12:21 – Apple slide15:35 – Show what our childhood was like16:25 – The oldest had more time17:45 – Kids in group vs. 1-on-119:00 – The cousins together22:29 – The plus one in sport reflects you24:28 – They all have pieces of you27:50 – Tuck tail30:27 – Don’t understand why you wouldn’t want to be with your kids31:00 – They are you before the world jaded you34:30 – Learn how their personality works35:45 – Glimpses of maternity41:32 – Holding them to a standard44:28 – Just try! And learn your kids46:18 – It’s ok to show your emotionsSupported by Oddside Arts

In Episode 11 of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew travels back in time to share the advice they’d give their 8–to 12-year-old selves. Reflecting on the importance of consistency, discipline, and guidance, they dive into how the lessons—both tough and tender—shaped who they are today. They unpack childhood challenges, the logic behind “who can’t hear must feel,” and the delicate balance of teaching humility and gratefulness to the next generation.The dads also examine the “gift and curse” of giving their children the lives they wished they had, while reminding themselves—and us—of the power of appreciation, especially for grandparents and those who show up without obligation. From resisting the pressure to follow the crowd to understanding the speed of time, this episode is packed with wisdom, self-reflection, and encouragement to slow down, be present, and find joy in the journey.Timestamps:00:00 Welcome00:28 Intro01:05 Consistency = Success03:00 Guidance to your 8–12-year-old self04:00 Thinking back on the hard guidance05:19 How guidance shaped you07:30 Who can’t hear ago feel08:39 The lesson of logic11:11 Teaching humility & gratefulness12:58 Gift & curse of giving the life you wanted15:40 Takeaway is to be appreciative16:42 Appreciation of grandparents19:28 They don’t have to do it21:00 Be present, be you! Don’t follow26:26 Are you a planner? Routine?29:12 Why does time feel faster as you age?31:00 Graceful way to get things done34:13 Find joy – final message35:00 Drive slow (outro)#blackfatherhood #AdviceToMyYoungerSelf #parentingpodcast #girldad #boydad #DadsUnscripted #WhatsThePurposePodcast #fatherhood

In this heartfelt episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew reflects on one powerful question: What have your kids taught you? From the early days of parenting to real-time lessons in patience, passion, and accountability—this episode explores how children shape us just as much as we shape them.They touch on everything from confronting big emotions to the softness that fatherhood brings, the mirror effect of kids reflecting our actions, and how to stay firm yet loving in today’s world. The conversation dives deep into raising resilient kids, handling danger with calm, and preparing ourselves to prepare them. Plus, there’s talk of street smarts, modern distractions, and learning to lead by example.This one’s packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and real dad talk.🎧 Tap in—you might learn something from your kids, too.

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Announcement 0:00

Jr Gong 0:17

Intro 0:43

What have your kids taught you 1:59

Patience 2:45

Following passion 4:59

Accountability 7:18

Consistent 10:54

Navigating new age preoccupation 14:00

Confronting big emotions 16:36

The softness 18:50

Strong and firm 19:06

Mirroring effect 20:40

The reaction to danger 25:08

Prepare myself to prepare them 30:11

Resilient 31:45

Street-side Knowledge 33:23

Recap 36:20