What To Do When You Still Love Each Other But Feel Miles Apart

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The Life in Transition, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we’re given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online.

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00:00 – The Biggest Learning Was Healing

00:16 – Welcome To The Life And Transition Podcast

01:43 – Many Divorced People Still Love Their Ex-Spouses

03:23 – Bruce Chalmer's Career Transition From Statistician To Therapist

04:07 – Transition Was Driven By Personal Crisis

06:17 – 30 Years In Private Practice

07:36 – Distinguishing Career Versus Calling

10:07 – Defining Faith

12:15 – Calling Brings Uplifting Energy And Prevents Burnout

14:31 – Men Have A Hard Time With Therapy

21:10 – The Biggest Learning Was That You Can Feel Bad And Heal

22:20 – Healing Is Possible Even In Great Pain

24:09 – Faith Comes With Humility

25:14 – Intellectual Emotional Humility

26:19 – Growth Mindset Versus Fixed Mindset

30:00 – Curiosity And Growth Mindset Bring Understanding

31:54 – Avoiding Intimacy For The Sake Of Stability

32:00 – Intimacy As "Into Me See"

34:47 – Intimate Conversation Reveals Unexpected Things

38:54 – Aging Is Not Optional, But Growth Is

41:29 – Faith Is The Key To Healing

44:15 – The Small Act Of Will To Believe Healing Is Possible

48:17 – Presence Is The Space Of Healing

48:36 – Narrative Therapy

50:27 – Connect With Bruce Chalmer At BruceChalmer.com

50:40 – Video Course: The Passion Paradox

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