Weaponizing Kindness

In this episode, we explore the complicated layers of forgiveness, the kind no one talks about. From closure that never truly closes, to performative apologies, to the emotional manipulation hidden inside “be the bigger person,” we dig into the truth of what forgiveness looks like when you're actually healing. I share a personal story that highlights the danger of seeing forgiveness as transactional, and why rushing to absolve others can become another form of self-abandonment. We discuss the difference between forgiving and reconciling, the importance of forgiving yourself first, and how toxic narratives around “moving on” keep people stuck in cycles of guilt, shame, and emotional dependency. This episode is about reclaiming your peace, redefining what forgiveness means, and learning to prioritize healing over performance. If you've ever questioned whether forgiveness is for them or for you, this conversation will bring clarity.