Weaponized Grace, Part 4: Forgiving as Christ Forgave

In this deeply thought-provoking episode of the All Consuming Grace Podcast, Paul and Rebecca Turner take a courageous look at one of the most misunderstood topics in the Christian life—forgiveness. Continuing their Weaponized Grace series, they challenge the popular idea of “just forgiving because Christ forgave,” and instead explore what it truly means to forgive as Christ forgave—with wisdom, truth, and discernment.

Their discussion is prompted in part by the powerful example of Erica Kirk, who publicly forgave the suspected murderer of her late husband, Charlie Kirk, during his memorial service. Paul and Rebecca reflect on that moment, along with their own experiences of walking through seasons where well-meaning believers urged them to forgive quickly—while they longed to do it biblically and with integrity.

Prepare to be challenged and encouraged as they unpack what real, Christlike forgiveness looks like. This episode will help you rethink how grace and truth work together in the healing process—and how this understanding can transform your marriage, parenting, friendships, and every close relationship.

If you’ve ever struggled with the question, “What does true forgiveness look like?”—this conversation is for you.