In this episode of 'Wait, What?', we discuss the challenges and triumphs faced by women in their forties or late thirties who are going through divorces or career changes. The conversation covers the impact of staying in unhealthy marriages for the sake of children, the importance of women finding their identity post-divorce, and the trend of women choosing independence over marriage. With personal anecdotes about the joys of creating a personal space, solo travel, and the emotional journey of becoming self-sufficient, this episode offers support and inspiration for women reinventing themselves. Highlights include a discussion on the benefits of being single, the stigma around singlehood, and the emotional resilience built through life changes. Join the hosts as they share stories and insights on finding joy and confidence in life after major transitions.

00:00 Introduction: Reinventing Women in Their 40s
01:04 The Impact of Staying in Unhealthy Marriages
02:47 The Loneliness Epidemic Among Men
03:48 Women Choosing Independence
05:35 Finding Confidence and Independence
06:07 Creating a Personal Space
13:52 Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges
26:22 The Joy of Single Life and Travel
28:48 Reflecting on Life Changes
29:18 Travel and Family Connections
30:10 Dream Destinations and Travel Stories
34:50 Living Alone and Finding Freedom
35:37 Navigating Divorce and Moving Forward
41:41 Supporting Each Other Through Tough Times
45:48 Embracing New Beginnings
51:15 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts

In this juicy episode of 'Wait. What? Carissa and Nicole share a poignant and informative story about the lasting impacts of the Ashley Madison data leak on a close friend. The narrative uncovers the psychological and emotional struggles faced by victims of infidelity and betrayal, and how these events have reshaped their lives over the past decade. Carissa's friend, who married later in life, faced severe personal and emotional turmoil after discovering her husband's infidelity through the Ashley Madison leak. The episode delves into the complex interplay of trust, narcissism, and the long-term effects of emotional abuse, highlighting how victims cope and attempt to rebuild their lives. Viewers are invited to share their experiences and thoughts, making this episode a call to support and understanding for those affected.

00:00 Introduction and Overview

00:43 The Ashley Madison Scandal

01:43 Personal Impact and Reflections

02:34 A Friend's Story Begins

03:29 Reuniting with the Past

04:41 The Reality of Relationships

07:53 The Perfect Couple?

15:53 The Betrayal Unfolds

18:47 Confrontation and Fallout

29:51 The Unraveling Begins

31:48 The Mystery Email Address

35:34 The Baby's Arrival and False Hope

38:35 The Cycle of Abuse Continues

40:15 Financial Control and Isolation

44:01 The Struggle for Independence

52:09 Seeking Help and Support

57:42 Hope for a New Beginning

In this inaugural podcast episode, Nicole and Issa introduce their exciting new show with a fresh logo and plans to tour nearby towns. The conversation kicks off with Nicole sharing her journey from California to North Carolina, highlighting culture shocks and her experiences as a kindergarten teacher. They delve into personal stories, including Nicole's upbringing in San Francisco, tough divorce, and opening a high-end consignment store, Judo. The friends discuss their unique backgrounds, parenting challenges, and travels, including Nicole's transformative trip to Bali. They also touch on their shared moments and the importance of genuine relationships. Tune in for heartfelt anecdotes and a sneak peek into their vibrant lives.

00:00 Welcome to Our First Podcast!

00:23 Accents and Regional Dialects

02:08 Life in San Francisco vs. New Orleans

03:33 From Teaching to Fashion

05:02 Nicole's High-End Consignment Store

12:32 The Challenges of Dating Tall

16:40 Music Festivals and Personal Stories

19:24 Health Struggles and Resilience

24:17 Family Background and Reflections

25:54 Empty Nesters: Adjusting to Life Without Kids

27:50 Raising Respectful Children

28:40 The Challenges of Single Parenting

32:08 Dating Woes and Funny Stories

34:51 Healing and Self-Discovery in Bali

44:52 Friendship and Support Systems

50:18 Concluding Thoughts and Teasers