Valentine’s Is Cheap; Your Love Doesn’t Have To Be

Tired of the Valentine’s Day script that swings between pressure and apathy? We take a deeper path, rooting marriage in the wide, long, high, and deep love described in Ephesians 3—and showing how that truth can turn a single holiday into a daily habit of generosity. Through honest stories of winter weariness and unmet expectations, we uncover how remembering God’s faithfulness shifts love from performance to overflow, and how grace breaks perfectionism’s grip so you can act with courage, even on hard days.

We walk through Romans 5 to rediscover what it means to be loved when least deserving and how that transforms the way we treat our spouse when they are least deserving too. Then we bring theology to the kitchen table: practical, specific ways to study your spouse, create meaningful time, offer reassurance, rekindle physical affection, and plan thoughtful moments that reflect their unique needs. We also lean into spiritual intimacy—simple rhythms of prayer, Scripture, and community that strengthen connection and build hope that doesn’t disappoint.

Expect a clear mindset shift: love is gift, not transaction. Anchored in Galatians 2:20 and Luke 6:38, we explore why giving often leads to deeper joy and how God equips you right now with everything needed to love generously. If you’re ready to trade the card aisle for a life of intentional care, this conversation will help you start today. Subscribe, share with a couple who needs encouragement, and leave a review with one practical step you’ll try this week—we’d love to hear what changes first.

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