"Us": The Emotional Landscape of an Affair

The author, a self-proclaimed "Mindful Modern Mistress," explores the intricate dynamics of long-term affairs from the mistress's perspective. Through evocative imagery of Alice in Wonderland, the author compares the experience of a long-term affair to a confusing, often exhilarating, and always emotionally demanding world. The author emphasizes the complex emotional entanglements that can arise from these unconventional relationships, emphasizing that denial of feelings is both damaging and ultimately futile. The author argues that these affairs are often filled with love but can also lead to insecurity and uncertainty, requiring a constant effort to navigate emotional complexities and manage expectations.