Unbed Men, Incels, and the Crisis of Male Connection with Robyn Silber

Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.

We talk about:

• why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters
• how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible
• why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection
• how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation
• where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacy

Listen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.

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