Sue is just back from two weeks in Thailand, where the attitude about sex work is incredibly different from the norm.

Today we discuss Fantasy, Money, and the World’s Oldest Transaction!

First up - the thing nobody wants to admit about sex work, and why so many are attracted to it.

The money conversation is part of today's episode... Including our belief that with world events and changes in employment opportunities, more and more people will be exploring sex as a career option. Sue calls it the "fantasy economy."

Plus, the girlfriend experience and why it's so popular, along with stripping and burlesque - and so many other categories of sex work.

As always, you, our listener, have filled our in-box with questions, and we are thrilled to answer them! Including someone wanting to know why people admit to affairs even though they may never get caught.

Thanks for your Kinky Confessions this week as well... Get on your knees and we'll share them with you. And you can share yours on our website (link below.)

Plus, stripping and burlesque and, on our So You're A Swinger segment - a story of a swinger club that only admits people who fit into a certain look. We call bullshit on that. And it's one more reason, on a long list of reasons, why we are thrilled to recommend Club M4 in Toronto - where EVERYONE is welcome and there is zero judgement. www.clubm4.com

Your questions, show suggestions, kinky confessions, voice notes along with links to our Youtube channel and every episode of this podcast at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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It's what people are desperate to talk about, but are too shy to talk about. Sex.

And we talk about it here, on Turned On With Sue And John!

Today, at the request of one of our listeners, we devote over an hour talking about the prostate. And we're joined by Caitlin V, host of HBO's GOOD SEX, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger: Science, Skills, and Secrets for the Best Sex of Your Life who has lost of insight to offer on the topic!

Plus:

- WHY YOUR BEST ORGASM ISN’T IN YOUR PENIS

- THE MALE G-SPOT MYTH — AND WHAT’S ACTUALLY HAPPENING

- ERECTIONS, EJACULATION, AND WHY MEN PANIC

- PEGGING ISN’T ABOUT POWER — UNTIL IT IS

And, the best and the worst of swingers club and why they work (and fail)... Brought to you by club M4 in Toronto!

Caitlin's Book: www.harderbook.com

Caitlin on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinV

New shows every Tuesday - available on all major podcast platforms, Youtube and at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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You are about to get an incredible lesson on seduction!

Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss seduction techniques that nobody has ever pulled you aside to teach you. Until right now!

On this episode you'll hear seduction truths, and what swingers know about seduction... Often their seduction strategies work, but not always. We'll get into the rejection factor as well.

Sue also introduces you to some of the most famous seducers in history!

You know that guy who wore the top hat to the party, or who had the craziest Halloween costume? Did you notice that he got hit on by a lot of women? He planned that. He seduced them!

Also today; why seduction is restraint. You always want to leave them wanting more. And Sue looks at the different things men and women often do in order to seduce people!

Time to get Turned On With Sue And John

Online @ www.turnedonpodcast.com

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It's actually why we chose to call our podcast TURNED ON. We knew we'd be having important and intimate conversations about everything that turns us on.

In other words; arousal.

Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive on the topic. Including why low libido is usually just lousy sex, and why good people end up having boring sex.

Find out why you can't negotiate the things that excite you, but you can engineer them, and why talking about sex often makes things worse.

On our "So You're A Swinger" segment, brought to you buy Club M4 Toronto (connect with them via the banner on our website) - We ask "are some people really not meant for monogamy?"

And, you'll get to hear Sue's life changing intimacy truths!

We have several questions from you, out listener to address as well! We LOVE those! sue@sexwithsue.com or via the contact information at www.turnedonpodcast.com

Also find us on Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast

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It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM.

Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space."

More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip.

You'll discover why giving women the power means your sex life skyrockets and why female lead sex is sooo much hotter, and will make men want more.

We also discuss what you need to do if you want to quit your shit job and pursue a career as a professional dominant!

And, for our swinger friends, we answer a listener question about where to meet other swingers.

This is a very hot conversation! We're glad you're getting Turned On with us. Now... Get... On... Your... Knees.

Our thanks to Club M4 Toronto - connect with them through our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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Oooh this is an especially spicy conversation today! Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie and John talk about Taboos, and the sex you really want when no one is watching.

What do we mean by that? The kinks we're too nervous to admit to anyone that we have. The things we secretly watch on porn sites. Seeking time with professional dominants and sex workers.

Also this week, we are overloaded with kinky confessions from you, our listener! Our kinky confessional is your safe, anonymous space, to reveal those things you secretly desire or have pursued, but can't tell anyone, but are dying to! We read them here, and post them on our website for all to read! Doesn't it feel good to put it out there, somewhere?

Oooh! You tickled our Turned On In Box again with questions and comments (thank you) and one person wants to know Sue's thoughts on the word "cuck" being used more and more in everyday conversation. Does that speak to ENM becoming more mainstream? And, where are swingers meeting other swingers? We share what works for us... What works for you? turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com

Plus, we introduce you to Miss Bernadette - a Toronto based, mature disciplinarian who specializes in spanking and associated role play. Heads up, in a few episodes from now we're going to be speaking to some of the top professional Dominatrixes about their craft, and about what you need to do in order to earn time with Them!

Our Youtube is back online after a community guidelines strike (oops) and, as always a HUGE shout out to our friends at Club M4 in Toronto and the KISS swingers who will be there this weekend for a masquerade party! Connect with M4 by clicking their logo on our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

And, if you're on Fetlife, follow us! @TurnedOnPodcast

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We absolutely love when YOU, our listener, determines what is discussed on this podcast! Last week’s episode on the penis was inspired by a request from our audience, and this week, in response to many who wrote to us to ask if we’d talk about her parts as well, we are! This is the “Vag Show” from Turned On With Sue And John.

Today Sue will cover everything from setting the record straight about the vagina being a system, not just a hole and about how no two vaginas are the same despite whatever ideas of “the perfect pussy” you get from magazines and other media.

We’ll discuss why she likes touch and stillness more than thrusting, why your pelvic floor is not supposed to be tight, and how your vag remembers past sex.

Also, we address a question from a listener whose partner wants him to play rough with her labia. He wants to know if that’s ok. (Spoiler, YES IT IS!) And, for our swinger friends, we present the 15 etiquette rules for swinging - plus one more! Our swinger segment presented by Club M4 in Toronto - The Premier Swingers Club in North America clubm4.com

And finally, some fun as fuck feedback about food as sex toys! Click the play button now to get turned on with Sue and John! We’re online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and now on Fetlife “TurnedOnPodcast”

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It’s another, in a long list of things, that people really want to talk about, but are too shy to talk about.
Penis size.

On this episode of Turned On With Sue And John, we’re talking about it! Including, what things actually work to increase length and girth. There are some crazy things on the market and we’ll help you steer clear of some of them.

Men deal with a lot of anxiety over the size of their manhood, and Sue is here to tell you that you can relax. In fact, she will reveal that there is actually something that most women remember a LOT more than your size!

There are problems with being too big as well, and we’ll address that as it pertains to traditional sex, plus oral and even anal sex.

For our friends in the swinger lifestyle, we address the men at the resort who may have a big one, but is that enough to get them on everyone’s wish list? (Spoiler; no. It’s not.)

And this week’s conversation also deals with the “bros” whose toxic masculinity is hurting them more than it’s helping them, and how they view their penis plays a role in this. Some bonus talk this week regarding men being called “Daddy” and other pet names, and John went to M4, a very well known adult lifestyle club in Toronto and he’ll share his thoughts on the experience with you today as well! Club M4: www.clubm4.com

IG: clubm4.toronto It’s time to get turned on… With Sue And John!
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And now on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast

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