Three Shades Deeper--Sir Sublime / Ep.6 BDSM: (Brainy, Dark, Seductive, Magnetic)

In this deliciously nerdy and insightful episode, we’re joined by Sir Sublime—a self-proclaimed “lazy top,” kink toymaker, and connoisseur of all things rope, impact, and mindplay.

Together, we unwrap the art and intention behind BDSM, diving into the nuances of dominance, the seduction of sensory play, and why best practices matter in the kink world.

Whether you’re a seasoned sadist or just kink-curious, Sir Sublime reminds us that "everyone kinks their own way"—and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure and power. We talk toys, technique, trust, and what it means to top without burning out.

Along the way, we explore:
• Why negotiation isn’t just for boardrooms (but should still involve snacks)
• How consent can be sexy, sacred, and sometimes sound like a well-prepped PowerPoint
• And why aftercare might mean cuddles, cookies, or just not losing your rope scissors again

From nerdy obsessions to sexy confessions, this episode is a playful, practical, and passionate look into the world of consensual kink.

LINKS:

Sinfully Sublime | Sir Sublime's Toys

Douglas Kent | Sky (sic "Air")

Jay Wiseman | Books