Three Shades Deeper--Meshai Olivares / Ep.7 - Why Choose? Living the Swolly Life

What happens when swinging and polyamory overlap?

In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we dive into the term “Swolly”—a playful way to describe those who enjoy both. The group sits down with Coach Meshai from Expansive Connection, who opens up about her own journey in embracing a swolly identity.

Together, they unpack the pros and cons of living at the intersection of swinging and polyamory, the misconceptions people often have, and what it really looks like to claim space in both communities.

Whether you’re a swinger, poly, swolly, or just swolly-curious, this conversation takes you deeper into the nuances of non-monogamy, identity, and authenticity.