This reporter made a film about his father’s dying days, turning grief into love

It’s been five years since Mitch Consky, now The CJN’s Local Journalism Initiative campus reporter, watched his father be diagnosed with a rare form of cancer and, within a few months, pass away at the age of 67. It happened in 2020, right at the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, when health care access became nearly impossible. In the spring of that year, Consky, then 25, decided to move back into his parents’ home in Toronto to serve as his father Harvey Consky’s main caregiver. At the time, Consky channelled his skills as a journalist to document the period. Before his father’s death in June 2020, the Globe and Mail _published an essay by Consky called “The Top of The Stairs”. Next came a book, _Home Safe. But Consky wasn’t done paying tribute to his late father, and doing what he calls “returning the favour” to a parent to whom he owed so much. So he and some friends from university cobbled together a budget to turn the original essay into a 15-minute short film. Last month, his film aired on CBC TV, and it has since debuted on the free streaming service CBC Gem, after doing the rounds at film festivals. Ahead of Yom Kippur and the Yizkor memorial service, Consky joins Ellin Bessner on this episode of The CJN’s North Star to explain why he hopes his autobiographical film will resonate with anyone who has watched a loved one die.

Related links

• Learn more about Mitchell Consky’s film “The Top of the Stairs” on CBC Gem (create free account to watch).
• Hear Mitch discuss his debut book “Home Safe”, published in 2022, on The CJN Daily.
• Buy the book.

Credits

• Host and writer: Ellin Bessner (@ebessner)
• Production team: Zachary Kauffman (senior producer), Andrea Varsany (producer), Michael Fraiman (executive producer)
• Music: Bret Higgins

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