This is Why You Chase and He Runs

Why do you chase the one who runs — and run from the one who stays?

In this episode, Fire & Ice dive deep into attachment trauma, the emotional blueprint formed long before we could speak.

🔥 Fire (Slavic intensity & emotional depth)

breaks down how childhood patterns shape adult love, why chaos can feel like home, and why some partners trigger survival instincts instead of safety.

❄️ Ice (Nordic logic & reflective calm)

challenges, questions, provokes — giving listeners the perspective of someone who intellectualizes emotions instead of reacting to them.

Together they explore:

• The 3 most common attachment wounds

• Why some people become “chasers” and others “runners”

• How the nervous system confuses love with survival

• Why avoidants shut down even when they care

• Why anxiously attached feel too much, too fast

• How culture (Slavic vs Nordic) shapes intimacy, conflict & trust

• And how to break the cycle — without losing yourself

Perfect for anyone who has ever asked:

“Why do I love the way I love?”

This is where psychology meets culture.

Where fire meets ice.

Where your patterns become visible

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