This Wasn't the Plan S2.Ep.33

Life is changing… and this time, my kids feel it too.

In this episode, I’m taking y’all into a real moment I had with my daughters ; one that caught me completely off guard. We were fine… and then suddenly, we weren’t. Tears, hard truths, and the realization that this wasn’t the plan.

My children are grieving the idea of a family that’s not coming back… and at the same time, I’m grieving too.

The hardest part?
I’m trying to guide them through emotions I’ve never personally experienced.

This version of motherhood… my mom never had to go through it.
So I’m learning in real time — how to hold space for them, while still figuring out how to hold myself.

We talk about:

• What it feels like when your kids start to understand the shift
• Carrying your pain and theirs at the same time
• Learning your children’s different emotional languages
• Being the safe space… even when you’re hurting too
• And how I’m redefining motherhood in a season that feels like a beautiful disaster

This episode isn’t polished.It’s honest.It’s heavy.

But it’s also full of love.

Because even in the breaking… we’re still building something real.If you’ve ever felt like you had to be strong for everybody while quietly falling apart… this one is for you.