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Ever catch yourself reacting to a story in your head instead of the person in front of you? In this episode of The Voyage Cast, therapist and host Eddie Eccker unpacks how our brains fill in the blanks and how those mental shortcuts quietly shape our relationships, our culture, and our conflicts.

From a funny gas station encounter involving Spaceballs and a misunderstood license plate to the psychology of “cognitive misers,” Eddie explores why we assume the worst, how social media fuels snap judgments, and what it means to practice generous assumptions instead.

You’ll learn:

• Why your brain makes assumptions (and how to slow them down)

• How misinterpretations damage connection in marriage and friendship

• Simple practices to replace judgment with curiosity and grace

Whether it’s a stranger at a gas station, a comment thread online, or your partner at home, the same truth applies: curiosity heals what assumptions divide.

Listen now and start telling truer stories about the people in your life.

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Sometimes life doesn’t knock — it just walks in.

In this episode of The VoyageCast, Eddie shares a painfully funny and surprisingly spiritual story about being walked in on at a Starbucks bathroom… and how that moment of embarrassment opened up something deeper about vulnerability, control, and grace.

From the science of why embarrassment feels like physical pain, to the story of Adam and Eve’s first attempt at hiding, this episode explores why exposure might be the most honest path to growth.

Eddie reflects on:

• Why life never asks permission before it changes you
• How embarrassment reveals what we’re clinging to
• What “spiritual nakedness” really means (and why it’s not about literal nakedness)
• How grace refuses to wait until we’re ready
• The simple laughter that welded a father and son closer together

With humor, honesty, and a little theological grit, this episode invites you to rethink the moments you’ve wanted to hide — and consider that maybe those moments weren’t about humiliation at all, but invitation.

If you’ve ever been exposed, interrupted, or undone by life, this one’s for you.

Listen now to learn why grace doesn’t knock, why embarrassment can be holy, and why being human is sometimes the most spiritual thing you can be.

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Even the most intelligent minds can fall prey to their own blind spots. In this episode of The Voyage Cast, Eddie explores a recent post by one of his former professors that accused a public memorial of using “covert influence tactics.”

What starts as a critique of manipulation opens up into a deeper conversation about bias, authority, and how easily psychology drifts into ideology when it loses touch with philosophy. Ed breaks down the difference between manipulation and meaning, examines the research behind NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and explains why worship, ritual, and emotion are not inherently suspect.

Along the way, he asks a bigger question: What happens when disagreement itself gets pathologized? Why have we come to assume that if someone disagrees with us, something must be psychologically wrong with them?

This episode invites listeners to recover discernment without paranoia, to recognize when influence is healthy, when it’s toxic, and how to stay grounded in truth, love, and reason even when emotions run high.

In this episode:

• Why intelligence doesn’t protect us from bias
• How “influence” became a dirty word
• What happens when therapy pathologizes disagreement
• Why NLP isn’t the scientific brain-hack it claims to be
• The difference between emotional manipulation and sacred meaning
• How to hold your ground in a world that diagnoses dissent

Key takeaway:

If you’ve ever felt dismissed, misread, or accused of being “under influence” simply for disagreeing, this one’s for you.

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