The “Victim”

In this raw, reflective, and razor-sharp insert, Areiyami opens up about the spiritual, emotional, and psychological unraveling of a so-called friendship that was never rooted in love—only in leverage. She unpacks the red flags, the gaslighting, and the grief that comes with outgrowing someone who never showed up to grow with you. This is more than a story—it’s a survival guide for anyone healing from the pain of being studied, envied, and emotionally robbed by someone they once called “friend.” This one’s not just for the overthinkers. It’s for the empaths, the givers, the forgivers, and the finally done.

Clarity is sacred. Loyalty has limits. And some friendships end because they were never real to begin with.

Join Areiyami as she dives into current world events and tackles the questions sent in by her supportive gang of Mind Muses for the fan-favorite segment, “Am I Overthinking or What?” She closes each episode with a soothing affirmation and heartfelt gratitude for her listeners.

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