The Upside Down Divorce: Dos & Don’ts

In this episode of the Happily Ever After Divorce™ Podcast, Sara Khaki and Shawna Woods unpack the idea of the “Upside Down Divorce”—a process where couples start with therapists and financial advisors before ever speaking to an attorney. With insight and candor, they explore whether this approach is truly child-centered and collaborative, or whether it reflects a deeper fear of attorneys and the legal process. Drawing from their experience in family law, the hosts discuss the importance of understanding the legal landscape early, the risks of unenforceable agreements, and how therapy, financial guidance, and legal counsel can each serve an important role when used in the right way. This conversation invites listeners to think more critically about how to approach divorce with clarity, intention, and the right support at the right time.