The Unsexy Work of Building a Great Marriage

Most of what builds a great marriage doesn't feel sexy.

It feels intentional. It feels awkward sometimes. It feels like choosing discipline over desire and consistency over chemistry.

In this episode, we talk about the unsexy work of building a great marriage - the conversations, the boundaries, and commitments that don't make the highlight reel but actually create safety, trust and lasting connection.

If your marriage feels less spontaneous and more deliberate right now, you're not failing-you might actually be building something solid.

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Chapters

• (00:00:15) - Foxes Eat Their Own
• (00:00:57) - The Unsexy Work Of Building A Great Marriage
• (00:04:59) - How To Love Your Marriage When It's Old
• (00:08:53) - God's Plan for My Marriage
• (00:13:56) - How to Heal a Broken Marriage
• (00:18:36) - How To Get Out Of Your Marriage
• (00:21:34) - Marriage: The Unsexy Part
• (00:25:45) - Be the Rock For Your Partner
• (00:26:11) - Why Does This Work Feel So Hard?
• (00:28:17) - Paul on Boundaries in His Marriage
• (00:32:41) - Marriage: The Right to Die
• (00:33:43) - The Fun, Fun Part of Marriage
• (00:38:10) - Marriage Is About Safety, Not Chaos
• (00:40:16) - Marriage Is Not Sexy
• (00:44:18) - How to Talk To Your Wife About Problems in the Marriage
• (00:49:05) - A Couple's Advice on Their Marriage
• (00:52:14) - Why Don't We Get Help For Our ptsd?
• (00:56:18) - How to Get Your Marriage Back on Track
• (00:59:03) - Valentine's Day Podcast