The Truth Ain’t Trending, But We’re Gonna Say It Anyway

This episode is exactly what happens when the mic’s hot and we’ve had enough. No script, no filter, just two grown-ass men talking about the wild stuff we’ve been seeing, hearing, and side-eyeing lately.

We talk about the growing number of “experts” giving advice on relationships and gender dynamics without lived experience to back it up. We explore how people tend to support success… but only when it doesn’t challenge their own insecurities. We get into the dangers of repeating false narratives so often they start to feel like truth, and how hard it can be to break free from that cycle. And we take a deep dive into one of the most misused buzzwords out there: emotional availability. What does it really mean? Why is it used as a weapon against men? Who’s actually emotionally available—and who’s just throwing around the phrase to sound deep? Finally, we touch on the impact of how rejection lands differently for men and women, and why nobody wants to talk about that honestly.

This is one of those episodes where we just let the conversation flow—and it led us to some raw, personal, and thought-provoking places. Come sip with us.