The Truth About Simps, OnlyFans & Fake Masculinity with Xavier Smith

Welcome to This Is Where We Heal with Ashley Taylor-Maland!
In this week’s episode, Ashley sits down with returning guest Xavier Smith, also known as 'Xaviertainment', for a raw and eye-opening conversation about modern dating, “simp culture,” and the hidden dynamics that keep us stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.

Xavier unpacks the rise of “simp culture” and how it reflects deeper wounds around self-worth, validation, and the need to be chosen. Together, he and Ashley dive into the double standards of dating, the traps of over-giving, and why so many people find themselves playing roles instead of building authentic connections.

This episode challenges cultural narratives about masculinity, femininity, and love while offering powerful insights on self-responsibility, attraction, and emotional safety. Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, tired of performative dating, or ready to rewrite the story of love in your life, this conversation will leave you with the clarity and tools to heal.

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