The "Strong One":Navigating Your Family And The World!

I watched an Instagram video of a young lady who had a conversation with her mother and grandmother about why attention was given to some siblings and grandchildren and not her and her children. They both stated that she was strong and had her head on straight, and they didn't have to worry about her. She stated that while she is independent and strong, she needed love as well. Due to not receiving that, she found love isolation. Have you been deemed "the strong one" and how did/do you move through the world, what is your relationship with your family? If you have deemed your child as "strong" how do you make that correction, and how do you move forward with your relationship with your child(ren).