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What happens when compliments make you uncomfortable? When recognition feels undeserved? When success feels like luck rather than skill? Brad and Tiffany open up about the surprising origins of this episode – a moment when Tiffany's inability to acknowledge Brad's public compliments revealed a deeper struggle with feeling worthy of recognition.

Through vulnerable conversation, they explore the concept of imposter syndrome, defined by their friend and licensed therapist Jessica Roberts as "a distorted belief system that describes people with pervasive feelings of insecurity and self-doubt who have anxious feelings related to being exposed as a fraud in their work, despite being verifiably successful." The hosts reveal how this syndrome often affects high-functioning, accomplished individuals who struggle to internalize their success.

The discussion takes a powerful turn when Brad shares a story about Gary Vee telling a young woman, "You are somebody now," causing her to cry with relief. This moment crystallizes the episode's core message: your worth isn't tied to your achievements or recognition. As Tiffany poignantly notes, "I don't want to be 61 thinking I still didn't do any of those things because I held myself back because of my thinking."

Whether you're battling perfectionism, attributing your success to luck, struggling with receiving compliments, or feeling like you'll eventually be "exposed" as inadequate, this episode offers practical strategies for challenging negative self-talk and embracing your true worth. From examining the stories you tell yourself to seeking honest positive feedback from trusted friends, Brad and Tiffany provide actionable steps toward healing and growth.

Ready to break free from the cycle of feeling unworthy? Listen now, and remember – you are already somebody, worthy of every good thing that comes your way.

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