What does it take to turn childhood insecurities and a three-job hustle into six-figure success and lasting legacy?

In this powerful conversation, Melvin Larry sits down with Eddie Bails Jr.—Entrepreneural leader, host of The Code Freedom Podcast, and a champion for men seeking impact beyond income.

Together, they explore mindset breakthroughs, faith as foundation, redefining manhood, and building a life that wins both at home and in business. Eddie shares the story of selling candy at 14, learning hard lessons with money, and the emotional truth of seeking validation “in the stands”—both on the court and in life.

You’ll walk away with renewed perspective on how faith, focus, and consistency shape not only your results, but your identity.

Watch Next

• Ep 50: David Shands – Think Legacy, Move Now
  https://youtu.be/dbhtYmaWZZc
• Ep 46: The Art of Letting Go – Releasing What No Longer Serves You
  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=p9z49h1GxqE

📚 Resources Mentioned

• Download Eddie’s Free 5-Step Guide to Financial Freedom:
  https://www.codefreedom.net
• The Dream Giver by Bruce Wilkinson (Amazon):
  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AEBEQUO?tag=melvinlarry-20

📲 Connect with Eddie Bails Jr.

• Instagram: @ebailsjr
• YouTube: The Code Freedom Podcast
• Website: https://www.codefreedom.net

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In this powerful solo episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry speaks directly to the man holding everything together—quietly, consistently, and without applause. If you’ve ever felt unseen while carrying the weight of leadership, responsibility, or pressure, this episode is for you.

Melvin breaks down what mental toughness really looks like—not bravado or ego, but steadiness in the storm. He shares personal insights on pushing through rejection, leading under pressure, and staying grounded when life tries to shake you.

You’ll walk away with clarity, truth, and a reminder that your resilience isn’t weakness—it’s your greatest asset.

🧠 NEW FREE RESOURCE: The Mental Toughness Reflection Journal
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📚 Book Mentioned in This Episode:
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
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⏱ Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & Message to the Real You
01:30 – Defining Mental Toughness Through Real-Life Pressure
05:00 – Corporate Leadership Story: Earning Trust Under Fire
09:45 – Transition to Entrepreneurship: Silence and Self-Doubt
14:10 – Silent Struggles of Leaders and Fathers
18:30 – Rejection, Redirection, and Rediscovery
22:20 – Mental Fatigue vs. Failure: The Hidden Truth
25:40 – How to Start Rebuilding Mental Toughness
29:30 – Grandkids, Falling Forward, and the Power of Getting Up
32:50 – Reflection Journal Invitation & Final Words

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This isn’t just another interview—it’s Episode 50!
And it’s personal.

In this milestone episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, I sit down with the man who unknowingly mentored me into this podcasting journey—David Shands. From seeing my face in a Profiles of Success booklet at 17, to becoming the #1 voice in entrepreneurship podcasting, David’s story is the embodiment of intentional growth, faith-driven resilience, and legacy building.

We dive into:

• Defining moments that shape our future
• Turning insecurities into fuel
• Why entrepreneurship is no longer optional
• How to think bigger (and act bolder)
• The real value of showing up every day

🎙️ Whether you're building a business, pursuing purpose, or redefining success, this conversation will challenge and inspire you.

🔗 Resources Mentioned in This Episode

🎓 Start Your Podcast Journey with the Experts
Unlock the 7-Figure Podcast Course from David Shands & Carlas Quinney Jr. (C.J.)
👉 Start the Course: https://7figurepodcastclass.com/weekly-checkout?am_id=melvin9301

Books by David Shands (Amazon Affiliate Links):

• Dreams Are Built Overnight
  👉 https://amzn.to/3WL5ER5
• Networking No-Nos
  👉 https://amzn.to/3WSmNXU

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome + Why This Episode Matters
01:48 – David saw Melvin in LegalShield’s Profiles of Success
04:03 – From Cheesecake Factory to Mindset Mentor
06:32 – Defining Moments: Not One, But Many
10:50 – Childhood Insecurities & How They Shaped Him
16:20 – “Sleep Is for Suckers” Origin Story
20:41 – Why Entrepreneurship Is No Longer Optional
24:00 – Thinking Past the First Million
29:18 – The Power of Environment
33:40 – From Battle Rap to Boardrooms
36:15 – Thinking Is a Core Value
39:42 – Protecting Peace While Leading
43:21 – Legacy, Mentorship, and Living Fully
46:10 – Final Message: Just Go After It
48:00 – David’s Daily Routine & Contact Info

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