In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how age differences in heterosexual relationships—especially when the man is older—can support emotional balance, sexual compatibility, and long-term connection.

00:10 Discussing Age Differences in Relationships
Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon dive into why age gaps—especially older man, younger woman—are a hot and often misunderstood topic.

00:48 Personal Experiences with Age Differences
Dr. Morgentaler shares how his own happy marriage with a younger partner adds personal insight to the conversation.

02:08 Evolutionary Psychology and Sexual Relevance
They explain how biology and societal norms make men stay “sexually relevant” longer, shaping relationship dynamics.

08:53 Leadership Dynamics in Age-Different Relationships
Age gaps often create natural leadership roles that help reduce tension and bring clarity to long-term partnerships.

16:55 Conclusion and Subscription Call
The doctors wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to subscribe for more real, relatable talk on relationships and sex.

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon

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#AgeGapRelationships #RelationshipDynamics #LongTermCompatibility

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses why men tend to have a higher sex drive than women in long-term relationships—and how biology, emotional patterns, and relationship dynamics all play a role.

00:41 Research and Misconceptions
Dr. Brandon breaks down how common beliefs about equal sex drives aren't backed by actual research.

01:56 Impact of Relationship Duration
She explains how women’s sex drive often drops in long-term relationships, even if it was high early on.

04:36 Dual Control Model of Sexual Desire
The model shows how desire depends on a balance between what turns someone on and what shuts them down.

05:49 Inhibitory and Excitatory Factors
Women tend to have more things that reduce desire and fewer that boost it—especially over time.

11:37 Understanding and Improving Intimacy
Dr. Brandon emphasizes that couples aren’t stuck—understanding these dynamics can help rebuild connection.

Resources:
Bancroft, J., & Janssen, E. (2000). The dual control model of male sexual response: A theoretical approach to centrally mediated erectile dysfunction. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 24(5), 571–579. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0149-7634(00)00024-5

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#SexDriveDifferences #LongTermRelationships #SexualDesireUnderstanding

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the hidden sexism in how we view male sexual dysfunction—and why showing more compassion and understanding could be the key to healthier intimacy and human connection.

00:25 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction
Dr. Brandon explains why we shame men for something biological, while ignoring how crucial arousal is to their ability to even participate in sex.

02:31 – Premature Ejaculation: A Double Standard
She calls out the unfairness—when women orgasm quickly, it’s praised; when men do, they’re blamed.

03:40 – Delayed Ejaculation: Misconceptions and Bias
Dr. Brandon highlights how men struggling to orgasm are judged harshly, while women in the same situation are offered empathy and space.

04:56 – The Impact of Sexism on Men's Mental Health
She shows how these double standards fuel shame, anxiety, and avoidance in men, often pushing them further into isolation.

05:44 – The Role of Sex Tech in Modern Relationships
With tech offering pleasure without judgment, Dr. Brandon warns that if we don’t change the conversation, human connection might lose the race.

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#MaleSexualDysfunction #SexismInSexuality #SexTech