Is there a “right” way to live… or have we all just been following invisible scripts we didn’t even know we signed up for? In this episode, we throw the rulebook out the window—or at least question who wrote it—as we explore the tension between cultural expectations, Christian living, and the ever-shifting lines of what feels “normal.” We'll unpack where our assumptions come from and whether they’re really serving us… or just helping us stay in our paint-by-number comfort zones.

It’s equal parts philosophical, practical, and delightfully unpredictable. We dig into everything from house sizes and meal times to how we raise our kids, all while wondering if God’s will is more jazz solo than sheet music. Come for the deep questions, stay for the rabbit trails, and maybe—just maybe—leave with a little more freedom in how you approach the canvas of you own life.

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I think we saved the best for last! And who's the guy doing the opening host duties?!? For the final round of our listener Q&A "March Mailbag Madness" series, we’re diving into some of the biggest, boldest questions yet. From past episodes that fired us up to personal reflections on how these conversations have shaped us, nothing’s off the table. It’s honest, unfiltered, and full of the thoughtful (and occasionally chaotic) discussion you’ve come to expect.

(0:00) Introduction

(1:49) Out of all the episodes you've done thus far, which one had you most fired up?

(6:48) Would you be willing to have a conversation about the queer community?

(10:34) Do you believe Jesus's commands to His 12 disciples broadly apply to all believers? (ie- The Great Commission) If so, why?

(17:39) Secret Question about one of the podcast hosts...

(18:51) If we pray and ask God to heal someone, do you believe that it makes a difference?

(26:18) Over the past 18 episodes, you have discussed and debated topics amongst yourselves that most individuals only dare to tackle alone. How have these episodes impacted you as individuals, as friends, and your spiritual journeys?

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"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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The mailbag is still bursting at the seams, so we’re back for another round of questions! From childhood dreams (astronaut, anyone?) to theological shifts, we’re unpacking how our beliefs have changed, the impact this podcast has had on listeners, and whether waiting until Day 4 to make the sun is a biblical plot twist. Plus, we dive into healing prayer—does it work, and have we seen it firsthand? Tune in for deep dives, detours, and plenty of laughs along the way!

(0:00) Introduction

(1:21) What did you want to be when you were a child?

(14:19) How have you seen or heard these episodes impacting the Rufflin' Feathers audience, and did any of it surprise you?

(20:00) In Episode #17 it was suggested that the sun and moon not being created until day 4 was a possible hint of a non-literal 24 hour creation. Might the sun and moon have been created to mark the Creators already determined length of a "day?"

(29:30) Have you ever asked God for healing (for you or someone else) and felt that God answered?

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"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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You asked, we answered—whether we should have or not is another question entirely! Welcome to our first ever Mailbag Episode, where we tackle the questions our listeners have on their minds. From deep theological quandaries and clarifying follow-ups on past episodes to the kind of curiosities that make you wonder how our listeners’ minds work, nothing is off-limits. It's March Mailbag Madness! Lord willing, we'll have 3 mailbag style episodes out to you this month.

This week we tackle:

(0:00) Introduction

(1:29) If you could ask your future self on question, what would it be?

(4:54) What about Jesus' words talking about "eternal flames" in Matthew? Does that help support the traditional view of hell?

(11:32) How do our personal roles in our families of origin play into who we are? Do they represent our "true selves?"

(17:32) What is the urgency for people to come to Jesus if they will eventually see Him anyway?

(25:32) Would you be willing to have a discussion on women's roles in the home and church?

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"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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The debate isn’t over yet! In part two, we keep the conversation going, tackling tough questions: What’s at stake in how we understand creation? Can Christians disagree on this and still break bread together? Whether you’re a young-earther, a theistic evolutionist, or secretly wondering if we’re all part of an alien science experiment, this episode is for you.

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"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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In the beginning… well, how exactly did it all begin? Some say God used evolution; others say that doesn’t fly with the Bible. In this first of a two-part conversation, we take a deep dive (or should we say, take flight?) into the origins debate. Can science and faith coexist? Does Genesis leave room for evolution? And are we really just glorified stardust—or handcrafted in the image of God? What might a curious, civil conversation between people who don't agree look like? Buckle up—this one’s going to ruffle some feathers.

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"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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You've got a million things on your holiday to-do list... but why not take a breather from white elephant gifts and eggnog to join the Rufflin' Feathers crew for a Holiday Hangout Christmas Chat? 🎄 No agenda. No prep. No problem. Have a listen while you’re wrapping presents or headed 'over the river and through the woods' to grandma’s house. We’re flying unscripted, soaring on the breeze of the Spirit through topics like Santa Claus, parenting, marriage, and whether wisdom always leads to perfect choices. Will this free-as-a-bird episode soar to new heights—or crash-land in a pile of tinsel? Tune in to find out!

From all of us at Rufflin' Feathers: Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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Music moves us, but what’s moving the music we listen to? Are you all about the beat, or do the lyrics hit you first? And where do our Christian convictions come into play? Join us as we riff on what it means to tune into music thoughtfully, whether it’s for personal growth or just jamming out in the car. Don’t worry—we’ll keep it clean. Mostly.

Do us a favor and share this episode with at least one friend this week. And let us know what you think... feedback is music to our ears!

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