It’s our 3-year podcast anniversary, and it also happens to be Valentine’s Day weekend — so we’re finishing the Fruit of the Spirit series with LOVE. We talk honestly about why Valentine’s Day can hit a tender spot, why it’s okay for couples to celebrate, and why singles don’t need to “do something” just to prove they’re fine. We also unpack the difference between God’s promises vs. God’s blessings, how false hope can quietly become idolatry, and what it looks like to live out real, Spirit-shaped love in every season.

Joy gets confused with happiness all the time—good moods, good seasons, and things going well. But biblical joy is sturdier than that. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David talk about joy as a fruit of the Spirit: not something we manufacture, but something God grows in us as we learn to release control and trust His unchanging character. We unpack joy in suffering, joy in waiting, and why singles don’t have to postpone joy until marriage. If life feels like a storm, this one points you back to the lighthouse.

In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David talk about peace as a fruit of the Spirit—what the world calls peace, what Scripture means by peace, and why “relief” isn’t the same thing as peace. They unpack the difference between peacekeeping vs. peacemaking, how false peace shows up in real life (including abusive dynamics), and why Jesus is the clearest picture of peace in the middle of chaos.
They also bring it home for singles: what happens inside you when you ask, “What if I never get married?” Real peace isn’t manufactured—it’s received, rooted in trust, and held steady even when circumstances don’t cooperate.

Patience isn’t pretending you don’t care, and it isn’t sitting in a corner waiting for life to start. In this episode, we talk about patience as the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5) and how that changes the way singles—and everyone—walk through delayed hopes, misunderstood seasons, and unanswered timelines. We also unpack why “God is teaching you patience so you’ll get your reward” is not the gospel, and what it means to trust God without negotiating the terms.

Kindness gets confused with being “nice,” but the Bible paints something deeper: kindness is active goodwill that moves toward others for their good—sometimes gently, sometimes firmly. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack kindness as a fruit of the Spirit, why God’s kindness leads to repentance, and how Jesus shows kindness without enabling sin. They also talk about kindness as a single person, boundaries, the “pay-it-forward” guilt trap, and why doing the right thing for the right reason matters.

In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David keep journeying backwards through the fruit of the Spirit and land on one that often feels… underwhelming: goodness. In a world where “good” sounds like the bare minimum—good day, good meal, good enough—they unpack why Scripture treats goodness as something far richer: moral beauty in action, not just avoiding bad behaviour.

The three of them wrestle with big questions: How is the goodness of Jesus different from the “goodness” of the Pharisees? How do we tell the difference between genuine spiritual fruit and a carefully polished image? And what do we do with church hurt, false teachers, and believers who feel blindsided by leaders they trusted?

Natasha also takes us to Acts 9 and the story of Tabitha (Dorcas), a woman whose quiet, faithful goodness made her so deeply loved that her community could hardly imagine life without her. Together, they reflect on legacy, funerals, and what people might honestly say if we were gone tomorrow.

Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to ask: Am I becoming the kind of person whose goodness reflects Christ—and whose absence would be truly felt?

What does faithfulness really look like when you’re single and your heart aches for marriage, security, or a different life than the one you’re living? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack the Fruit of the Spirit—faithfulness—through the lens of singleness, desire, and idolatry.

Together they explore the Greek idea of pistis (faithfulness as trustworthiness, loyalty, and steadfastness), how God’s unchanging character anchors us, and how even good gifts like marriage, children, career, or comfort can quietly become “God things.” They wrestle with tough questions like: What if marriage never happens? Would losing God hurt more than losing that dream? and How do we surrender both our good desires and our sinful ones to Him?

With real stories, Scripture (Job, Proverbs, Philippians, and more), and a bit of laughter along the way, this conversation invites you to serve one Master, grow in faithfulness right where you are, and press on toward Christ—married or not.

Gentleness isn’t timidity—it’s controlled strength. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David dig into gentleness/meekness as a Fruit of the Spirit for singles: why independence can harden us, how unmet expectations turn into cynicism, and how Jesus models power under control (Philippians 4:5; Matthew 11:29; 1 Peter 2:23; Proverbs 15:1).
Takeaways: slow your reactions, practice self-gentleness, seek humility and gratitude, and let God’s nearness shape your tone. Soft strength is anything but weak.