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In this episode of the Relate Great podcast, host Jonathan Sherman is joined by Chelsea Paul and Karissa Pahl from All of You Services, a cleaning company that goes beyond traditional cleaning to address mental health struggles. Jonathan discovered Chelsea through a heartfelt social media post highlighting the connection between depression and overwhelming mess. Chelsea and Karissa share their approach to helping clients declutter and deep clean their homes without judgment, emphasizing the therapeutic benefits of a tidy space. They discuss the emotional and relational impacts of living in disorganized environments, their personal connection to mental health issues like ADHD, and their unique teamwork dynamics. The episode concludes with practical advice for listeners feeling overwhelmed by clutter.

00:00 Introduction to Chelsea's Post on Depression and Messiness

02:44 Mental Health and Cleaning: A Deeper Connection

03:29 Client Experiences and Vulnerability

06:12 The Process of Decluttering and Organizing

08:58 Challenges and Boundaries in Cleaning 10:42 The Emotional Impact of a Clean Space

21:16 The Sisters' Journey into Cleaning

25:13 Hyper-Focused and Satisfied

26:08 Family Therapist Insights

26:23 Navigating Family Business Dynamics

27:24 Communication Challenges and Strategies

31:50 Impact of Home Organization on Relationships

40:13 Tips for Listeners: Cleaning and Mindset Hacks

44:07 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Referenced Resources:

Original post with pics

Website: All of You Services

Facebook: facebook.com/allofyouservices

Episode Page: RelateGREAT.net/podcast/007-mess-and-mental-health

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In this episode, Jonathan Sherman, a marriage and family therapist, offers seven crucial parenting tips. The advice stems from a presentation he gave at a conference and an interview with young clinicians from Utah Youth Village. The key areas covered include understanding your child's world, allowing feedback, avoiding power struggles, the importance of both quality and quantity time, fostering good relationships with teenagers from an early age, being interested in your child's interests, and the value of appreciation. Sherman shares personal anecdotes and professional insights, encouraging parents to grow and adapt alongside their children while maintaining patience, presence, and authentic communication.

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01:24 1. Make an effort to understand your child’s world

02:11 2. Allow kids to give you feedback

05:26 3. Not engaging in power struggles allows kids to teach us -- Lesson from a 13-year-old rebel

12:37 4. Quality time is a function of quantity time - Patience and Presence.

16:07 5. Relationships With Teenagers Starts When They’re Young

18:32 6. Be interested in the things that interest your kids

21:19 7. Appreciation is a cushion

▶︎▶︎ Referenced Resources:

The 7 Principles for Building a Strong Family book and online masterclass.

• RESOLVE conflict,

• IMPROVE communication,

• INCREASE bonding, and

• SECURE attachments with your partner and your kids.

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In this episode of the RelateGREAT! Podcast with Jonathan Sherman, listeners are treated to a variety of dating stories during the second part of a two-part call-in show focused on dating disasters. The episode features 12 callers, including Jonathan's son Adam, who shares his high-school dating mishap. Other callers like Peyton and wife Lauren narrate their humorous and awkward relationship beginnings, and Austin recounts his clumsy journey from heartbreak to finding true love. Xerxes and Laurene share their long-term marriage experiences, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and friendship in enduring relationships. Jonathan Sherman, a marriage and family therapist, also shares insights drawn from John Gottman's relationship research, highlighting the significance of friendship and admiration in successful marriages.

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00:00 The Call-in Show: Dating Disasters! Part 2

00:54 Adam's High School Date

05:54 Caller Peyton and Lauren's Awkward Beginnings

17:23 Caller Austin's Nervousness

17:40 Introduction to the Writing Group

18:42 Austin's Clunky Love Story

20:42 The Turning Point in Austin's Relationship

24:45 The Proposal and Marriage

31:33 Reflections on Marriage and Friendship

36:00 Xerxes' Story of 32 Years of Marriage

43:01 Laurene's Bad Date and Love Story

49:13 Conclusion and Future Plans

Referenced Resources:

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